Archive for February 23rd, 2007

The promise of books not yet read

Friday, February 23rd, 2007

I went to the library at lunch today to give them money so that they will let me renew some books. They have rules about maximum fines that seem arbitrary to a person with date deficiencies. In any case, since I was there, I picked up some books to read to Reid. One of the books, *There Is Only One Me* by Pat Hutchins, holds much promise to me. It starts, “I am my mother’s daughter,” on the next page it reads, “I am my sister’s sister. (And I am my mother’s daughter).” Based on these first pages, I can’t wait to read it to Reid. We have this sort of conversation often and the illustrations are pretty. Unfortunately, sometimes I am completely wrong about the books I think she will like.

A while ago, I chose a book about a garbage truck called, *I Stink* by Kate McMullan. I pulled it out every day or so for the three weeks that we had had it signed out but never succeeded in convincing Reid to let me read it to her. I was sure that it would be a winner. When we go somewhere, spotting a garbage truck is almost as good as seeing a school bus. Not so. Maybe I was too eager.

I think it’s time to begin setting the books aside again as we read them. We’re back in our rut.

Why, Mama?

Friday, February 23rd, 2007

We are, mercifully, hearing fewer no’s these days, especially no’s that were said on principle rather than because Reid actually didn’t want what was offered. Instead, Reid’s favourite word is now, “why”. Oh, we knew it was coming but it was a bit surprising how quickly the change came upon us. This morning went like this: While I was putting a ponytail holder in Reid’s hair, the holder broke. I told Reid that I’d need to get a different one.
Reid: “Why, Mama?”
Me: “Because this one broke.”
Reid: “Why, Mama?”
Me: “Maybe I pulled too hard.”
Reid: “Why, Mama?”
Me: “Your hair is very thick.”
Reid: “Why, Mama?”
Me: “Maybe is was poorly made.”
Reid: “Why, Mama?”
Me: “Do you want me the braid your hair or leave it”
Reid: “Braid.”
Me: thinking to myself – success!

And so it goes.