The Best Gifts – Breastfeeding Carnival

Welcome, Carnival of Breastfeeding readers.

I’ve written about The Best Gifts by Marsha Forchuk Skrypuch before but when I read that the theme for this month’s Breastfeeding Carnival was a review of a book or video related to breastfeeding, parenting, or giving birth, it was the first that sprang to my mind. If I had to choose an advice book to take to a deserted island, I would take Dr Jack Newman’s Guide to Breastfeeding. It was the book that I opened in the dead of the night or whenever I had a question but the questions are all the more pressing in the middle of the night. I’m sure that someone else will cover Newman’s work, though, and I wanted to write about a book that simply presents breastfeeding as a normal part of childhood. The images and story in this book are those that are sorely lacking in most children’s story books.

Like many mothers, I am careful to choose books that depict people of different races and family situations, those in rural and urban neighbourhoods, kids with disabilities and those that live far away or near to us. What I was unable to find in the first two years of my daughter’s life was a book that depicted our nursing relationship. And then one day, I discovered The Best Gifts in the parenting section of my local library.

The Best Gifts tells the story of the life of a baby/girl/woman as she grows from a nursling to a nursing mother. The book describes a number of occasions for celebration and how presents received are cause for joy and gratitude but that the best gifts can’t be purchased. In the first example, visitors bring gifts for the newborn baby but it is as the baby is “wrapped in love and a light scent of lavender as the warmth of her mother’s milk swirled in her mouth and filled her tiny stomach…” that happiness deepens. As the girl grows older, her parents give gifts of time and history. The story ends with the main character now a nursing mother in her own right providing her own son with mother’s milk and love. On both occasions when breastfeeding is featured, the father is shown as an involved member of the family, cuddling the mother and child while the baby nurses.

The illustrator of The Best Gifts, Halina Below, uses watercolours and watercolour pencils to create soft images that convey a gentle love. They match well with the soft tone of the story and draw a child into a discussion of what is contained in the image.

A list of resources is provided at the end of the book, providing contact information for Canadian and international organizations that support breastfeeding.

Mothers-to-be and those in the midst of nursing a child need access to books that will answer their questions about the mechanics of nursing and provide solutions to the challenges that some will face. The Best Gifts should be on their bookshelves as well in celebration of the nursing relationship itself.

Children should have access to this and other books that depict breastfeeding relationships as part of childhood to instill a sense of the normalcy of nursing. The baby bottle has been the symbol of infancy for too long. Our children should not automatically reach for a bottle when they play with their dollies, they should reach for the hem of their shirts. And in the future books such as this one will be on the shelves with all of the other picture books and not segregated to the parenting section.

Does anyone have other stories for children that depict breastfeeding?

Check out the other participants’ reviews in the November Carnival of Breastfeeding. I’ll be updating this list throughout Monday and Tuesday as the entries are posted.

100 Responses to “The Best Gifts – Breastfeeding Carnival”

  1. The Best Gifts sounds like a really lovely book. I hadn’t come across it before now…
    You’re so right when you say a baby bottle has been a symbol of infancy for too long… wouldn’t it be lovely to see this change by the time our children have grown up?

  2. Mama Bear says:

    I haven’t read The Best Gifts yet, but I’m really glad you reviewed it because I’ve been meaning to, and this might be the push I need to run down to the bookstore and buy myself a copy. Thanks! :)

  3. Heather says:

    This sounds like a great book! I wish I had it before my little one was born. There were some awkward moments with my school age nieces because they thought that babies got their milk from a bottle. It would have been a great teaching tool for them.

  4. Hobo Mama says:

    This book sounds absolutely charming. I’m going to recommend that our local library order it. Cheers!

  5. SusanB says:

    I tried to leave a comment earlier, but it said I couldn’t add! And now I don’t remember what I said…
    But have you read “Near Mama’s Heart?” It’s not exactly a “story” book, but it has beautiful pictures of nursing mamas and babies and some sweet rhyming text about how good nursing makes babies feel.
    Oh yeah, I remember what I said…I am all for your idea of making nursing normal again at least in your own home, and I think we’re on the right track: my son loves to nurse his stuffed animals, as well as ask me to. So we often sit on the couch together and pretend to nurse a variety of creatures. It’s great! I hope he’s not too disappointed when he grows up to realize he can’t actually nurse a baby. ;)

  6. this book sounds beautiful and inspiring. i hadn’t heard of it before, but will be adding it to my book list. :)

  7. Thank you so much for your kind words about my picture book, The Best Gifts. It was published way back in 1998 and is still going strong. I believe it can be purchased through La Leche League and also through online bookstores like Amazon, Barnes & Noble and Abebooks.com

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