Archive for October, 2006

What did you do at daycare, Reid?

Thursday, October 5th, 2006

Sometimes, when I ask Reid what she did at daycare, she answers, “Fun”. I’m not sure if she is being efficient because my second question is often, “Did you have fun?” or if she just doesn’t have the words to describe what she did or if she just hasn’t learned to say, “Nothing” to get me out of her business. Maybe she had fun and that was enough to say. Sometimes I will ask her if she went on the slide, played in the sand, etc. and she generally answers in the affirmative. Unfortunately, she also says “un-hunh” to things which I know to be untrue in fact but may be true in terms of what she wishes for.

So, I have to choose between brevity or the possibility of falsehood.

Doing things right, start to finish

Thursday, October 5th, 2006

When we try to help Reid with something that she has decided she can do on her own, the process has to be started over from the very beginning. For example, if I were to pick up Reid’s shoes to put them on her and she objected, the shoes would have to be put back on the floor where they came from before. She won’t accept the shoes from us and then put them on.

The same thing happens, ironically, when we do for ourselves or each other something that she considers to be her job, like retrieving my jacket. If Ken were to try and hand it to me and Reid wanted to do it. He can’t hand it to her, it has to go back to the newel post where she can get it.

The precision and dedication that goes into restoring order and completing the tasks is impressive. Tough math problems will be tackled with the same ferocity, I hope. This reminds me that I should bake something with Reid again soon to practice math skills (and you thought baking was for eating ;+)

Finner painteem

Wednesday, October 4th, 2006

After supper last night, Reid and I did some finner painteem pictures for Grandmama who is in the hospital. Our yellow is almost gone, no surprise there, I guess. There is still lots of black which I tend not to give her since her whole page ends up looking like the art-therapy project of a depressed teen. I’m not ready for her to be a Goth yet.

Reid was painting swirls and asking for particular colours to be put in certain places on her page when she decided to make hand prints on the paper. To prepare herself, she rubbed her hands together and then sort of lathered and squeezed her interlaced fingers. This action caused:
* a slurping sort of sound;
* Reid to grin; and
* Reid to say, “Squisheem, Mama!”

Reid really experiences life with her whole being. I’ll be a bit sad when she gets her tongue around “ing” sounds but am glad I have her to remind me of the fun of touching finger paints.

Important things that I have taught Reid

Tuesday, October 3rd, 2006

I know Reid will learn many things in her life but I wanted to report on three things I’ve taught her:
1. How to squirt water from her rubber duckies in the tub
2. How to pick up wooden blocks with her toes (hint: it’s about positioning the block so that the thin edge is up)
3. How to chase the “sugar bugs” with her toothbrush, especially the purple ones that prefer her front teeth

Some day when she is learning calculus or physics, she’ll pause and say to her Daddy (because it will be him who helps her with these subjects), “I understand why it’s important to pick up blocks with my toes but what will math and science do for me?”

Reid’s “holiday” from daycare

Tuesday, October 3rd, 2006

Ken has reported that the last couple of days, Reid has been particularly cooperative when going into daycare. Before we left, she had been a bit fussy about going in and she even cried one day when I took her. Maybe she just needed a “holiday” from daycare. She was asking me if Ken was on holiday last night after we dropped him at his “offiff”. The ladies at daycare (or maybe it was Wheatley-people”) must have asked her if she had a nice holiday and/or what she did on her holiday because it’s not a word that Ken and I use. I say “vacation” and Ken says, hmmm, “trial by hotel and car”, maybe ;+) Seriously, I don’t think he says “holiday”, either, even when he isn’t tired and sore from driving through a windy, rainy day.

I’ll blame the daycare ladies if she says, “vahse” or “tomahto” instead of “vase” and tomato”, too. Ken will be on the hook for curse words since he drives in rush hour with Reid 40 minutes a day.

Flashback to maternity leave

Tuesday, October 3rd, 2006

Ken had to back to work last evening and I had to pick up my laptop (made in Malaysia) and its carrying case (made in China) from Purolator. Ken was tired from driving but he sucked it up. Reid and I got the two boxes, counted 9 light posts between the door and the car and narrowly avoided running into the parking lot (well, I guess Reid almost made it into the parking lot and I barely caught her in time). I was impressed that the two boxes from so far away managed to arrive to me at the same time. There is a neat desciption of Dell’s manufacturing process in Friedman’s *The World is Flat* but I didn’t think I’d be getting a Dell when I read it.

Reid and I got groceries at a store near Ken’s office and then went for a drive near the airport so that she could fall asleep. That brought back memories from when I was on mat leave. We drove and listened to a CD and I thought of the cost of gas and the “cost” of Reid staying awake and decided to pay for the gas. We got Ken a bit early, though I know which buildings I can drive around in the industrial park where his office is and so I wasn’t worried if he was late. Reid and I spent a lot of time in “Reid’s purple car” when she was smaller. It’s a wonder her bottom isn’t shaped like her car seat ;+)

Cold concrete is not a problem

Monday, October 2nd, 2006

While at Grandma Joyce’s on Friday, we were looking at some photos off of Merri-Lynn’s camera that had been forgotten at the store for awhile. One of the photos was of Reid sitting on a blanket wearing only rubber boots and drawing on the floor of the garage. We giggled at how silly she was to go out like that (but nobody could remember why she wasn’t wear her clothes). On Sunday morning, Reid convinved Aunt Karin to go to the garage to draw with chalk. This time, Reid had clothes on but balked at a jacket. The floor was still cold and Aunt Karin, all spiffy in her Sunday School clothes, got a couple of stools to keep their bottoms off of the floor. I guess an artist can’t be distracted by such trivia as cold concrete.

Reid’s new camera

Monday, October 2nd, 2006

The problem with giving a two year-old a digital camera is that the child is two. Reid seems to like her new camera. She enjoys the sound of it turning on and sometimes will take a picture. Unfortunately, though, (from my point of view) she also enjoys the sound it makes when she deletes a picture and since there is also a visual change, she prefers to do this over turning it on and off and even more than taking pictures, I think. I read the manual to see if there was a parental override that would let me turn off the “feature”. I wonder if the people who designed it considered that small children might respond a Reid does to the sound? As long as we don’t capture the only photo of her learning to ride an elephant on her camera, we’ll be okay. Ken will probably say it will provide me with a good opportunity to not be so controlling. ;+)

Hurricane Reid touches down in Wheatley

Monday, October 2nd, 2006

This past weekend passed in such a blur.

Our car trip to Wheatley was relatively uneventful (which is easy for me to say since I got to sleep for about 90 minutes of the four and a half hour trip while Reid slept). Ken told me that there was constuction and confusion for quite a while but I never saw any ;+)

Reid is such an adaptable kid. We visited with Grandma Joyce for a couple of hours and then Ken and I went out for supper while Reid stayed behind. It seems so rare that Ken and I are out alone together. We had supper and then went to Dairy Queen for supper. Ken’s banana split looked good and since he hadn’t been hit by the truck that was driving in the drive-thru lane that the bathroom door onto, he was able to enjoy it.

Reid, Grandma Joyce and I got our pictures taken and then Reid went with Grandma Joyce to Uncle Roger’s while I went shopping just outside of Detroit. We found great sales and Reid will continue to be a well-dressed toddler. I found some shoes for myself but Ken was confused as I already have shoes that fit.

We celebrated Uncle Chris’ 50th birthday on Saturday night. Reid had had a late nap and was a bit grumpy at first but sooned hit her stride and was able to play with cousin Dylan and another boy named Brayden. Her greatest trick was to hang from the push-bar on the door and then “walk” up the door until her feet were at nearly the same level as her hands. I’ll have to get her into gymnastics, soon, to direct this talent.

Sunday morning we had a whole bunch of visitors. Uncle Roger came first and kept Reid while I packed (who bought those new clothes and where was I supposed to put them?!). Uncle Chris and Sari came next and then, as they were going, Chantelle and Brianna arrived. Auntie M. (Merri-Lynn) and Danielle and a friend came over, too. Reid likes to hang out with Danielle since Danielle is the next-closest girl cousin (and since Reid doesn’t recognize that the age gap is considerable :+). Brianna and Chantelle helped carry bags to the car but the help through Ken off as he usually loads everything by himself.

Once again, Reid fell asleep soon after we left, which is part of my evil plan. We stopped for a bathroom break and I had Reid run up and down on an “island” to burn off some energy. We drew pictures and wrote names, stacked her cups and talked about the animals on the bottom and whether they ran, flew or swam. Thanks to Grandma Joyce, we had veggies and cheese to munch on and eating counts as entertainment when you’re stuck in the back seat.  We played with shaker eggs and a new instrument that had sixteen jingle-bells. The latter seemed like a good idea until Reid was pounding the handle on her car seat as we were stuck in construction. Ken said we were weren’t driiving him crazy but I think he might have meant as compared to when Reid cries because I have done something terrible like eat the crumb of cracker that fell off when she took a bite. (Yes, I should know better but I forget). We saw rainbows and fog and some pretty fall trees and our bums got tired of sitting but finally we made it home to our kitties and our own beds.

It was a much more peaceful ride than I had expected (touch wood) and since Reid managed to use the potty at the appropirate times I feel like a lucky woman. Maybe we’ll survive Christmas after all. ;+)