Archive for February, 2007

Party girls have time for regrets

Tuesday, February 13th, 2007

Reid woke up at her usual time on Sunday morning despite being up so late on Saturday night. We had a rather slow morning and didn’t make it to Eddy’s for breakfast until nearly 9:00. It’s nice to visit and eat without worrying about whether I should be getting anyone more of anything. After breakfast, we headed downtown to skate on the canal. Before we got to the canal, though, we found a play area which had lots of coloured ice blocks for the kids to build with and then we discovered an ice carving of a dog sled and dogs that people could climb into and have their picture taken. We did both and then resumed our journey to the canal. It isn’t a long distance to cover but Reid is so interested in all of the things that happen around her, small trips turn into full-fledged journeys. Grandma Joyce, Aunt Karin and Reid waited on a bench while I went to rent a sleigh for Grandma Joyce and Reid to ride in, or at least the plan was Grandma Joyce would ride and Reid would skate and then when Reid was tired, she would join Grandma. I put my skates on while Aunt Karin helped Reid with her skates. Reid was pretty slip-slidey but didn’t complain until we put the helmet on her. Then, I thought, her late night caught up with her and magnified whatever discomfort the helmet caused. She cried and wasn’t able to tell us her problem. Did she want to ride in the sleigh? Yes. But more tears. Did she want Aunt Karin to help her skate? Yes. But more tears. Did she want to ride on the stroller? Yes. But more tears. She wanted me to carry her but it has been at least five years since I skated last and I was glad of the sled or stroller to push to help stand up. Finally, I pushed my tearful girl in her stroller past the hordes of skaters who looked at me like I was a very bad mama. I took my skates off and then Reid’s. Her feet seemed cold but not terribly so. She refused the Beaver Tails that Aunt Karin had got when we thought Reid would be happy once I was holding her and then we returned the sleigh and headed for the car. Once inside the World Exchange Plaza, we took Reid’s boots off and her feet were little red blocks of ice. Poor baby! Aunt Karin wrapped Reid’s feet in her blanket while Reid had some mama milk. Once warmed inside and out,  Reid-the-happy-girl came back and we ate subs for lunch.

Reid didn’t make it more than a couple of blocks in the car before falling asleep. Aunt Karin stayed in the car with Reid while I went in and got the turkey and and then had a nap. I slept more than two hours and Reid slept nearly three. Donald came for a birthday supper. Reid was excited about the cake and candles and singing but wouldn’t help blow the candles out. She didn’t eat cake but ate some vanilla ice cream. This shows that she is a blend of Ken (who isn’t keen on cake) and me (who tends not to choose fancy ice cream).

Reid’s long nap and late night on Saturday came back to bite me as she didn’t fall asleep until after 9:00. I would’ve been asleep at 8:00 except for the smiling, cuddly child in my arms who had many kisses to bestow.

Books we read, February 12th

Monday, February 12th, 2007

Okay, I have to admit that most of the reading was done by Grandma Joyce and Aunt Karin, given that we sent Reid downstairs as soon as she woke up and she stayed with them all day:

In the evening, we read:

  • All of the stories in the Winnie the Pooh Treasury and sang the song many times;
  • Benny’s bus
  • A Tune-Up for Toby, a Read and Roll book;
  • Which Way to School, a Read and Roll book;
  • My Little Book of Sharing
  • 50 Below Zero by Robert Munsch.

When you wake up – no, I know it’s not sleeping time right now

Monday, February 12th, 2007

On Friday morning, I reminded Reid that Grandma Joyce and Aunt Karin were coming for a visit and would be at our house when she woke up the next morning. She looked at me and said, “No sleeping time, Mama.” She was right, I agreed. It was time to get dressed and go to daycare. But after daycare, and after supper and after we played some, THEN it would time for sleeping and while she was sleeping, Grandma Joyce and Aunt Karin would arrive. And they did.

On Saturday morning, Aunt Karin accompanied us to Kindermusik. She was right there for the standing up and sitting down and standing up again to dance or march while we sang. Another woman accompanied M’s mom but didn’t participate. She looked like she could have but just didn’t. What’s the point of coming at all? After class, Aunt Karin took Reid off to play in the park. I’m not sure what they did exactly but they came back with rosy cheeks and big smiles.

After lunch and an all-too-brief nap, Reid went downtown to show Grandma Joyce and Aunt Karin the ice sculptures. She took Donald along as her co-guide. Afterwards, they all went out for supper. It was a long, slow meal from all reports. Reid ate her entire hamburg, leaving no crumbs, drank Donald’s orange juice, every drop, and ate her fries pausing to chat between each – or this is what I was told when they got back about 7:10. In the meantime, Ken and I got our delayed Robbie Burns supper ready and tidied the house up without Reid’s help. We even managed to have a relaxed glass of wine before super and eat most of our dinner as a house of grown ups. What a treat! I love Reid and have to say that she was quite entertaining as she ate the last of the broccoli and drank many tiny glasses of juice from her very own shot glass. Still, it was nice to fly “solo” for a bit. Reid got to bed late but stayed happy throughout.

Happy (belated) Robbie Burns to each of you. If you’d like some haggis, let us know and we can get some for the next time you visit.

It was you!

Monday, February 12th, 2007

We were in a public restroom on Sunday, Reid and I together in the handicap stall and Aunt Karin somewhere else. As Reid, who denied needing to go at all, put down roots – her usual M.O. – Aunt Karin knocked on our door and then kicked the stroller’s wheel. Reid grinned at the hijinx and the news that I thought the culprit was Aunt Karin. Finally asked Karin to come watch over Reid so that I could use the facilities myself. As Karin walked in, Reid chortled (yes, I’m pretty sure that is the only verb to describe her tone and expression), “It’s was you!” As though, one part of Reid knew that Aunt Karin was another part just couldn’t believe it until Aunt Karin walked through the door.

Presents are fun

Monday, February 12th, 2007

I pulled a present for Zachary this morning, showed it to Reid and told her what it was and that it was for Zachary. Reid’s eyes sparkled and she grinned and said, “Zach-y” with great enthusiasm. (I’m careful to enunciate the second syllable and soon she may say, “Zach-A-Ree” but we’ll cross that bridge later.) In any case, we put the present in the gift bag and I finished getting ready for work. Before I left, Reid was dancing around the house with the present, out of it’s bag, singing “Zach-y, Zach-y” over and over.

As I left the house, though, she was reading the book we got for Dylan  to Grandma Joyce. Reid’s copy is a bit mangled from much love and she was pleased that we were giving a copy to Dylan. I had left the tape and a piece of artwork out for Reid to wrap the book. This will be a fun activity for Reid as using tape is one of her favourite things to do. I hope some of her joy is captured in the packaging.

I got a present of my own this morning. Karin drove me to work in a warm car that even had a seat heater. Whoever thought up warming bums and lower backs is my hero! Tomorrow I’ll take the bus but today I was spoiled.

Books we read, February 10th

Saturday, February 10th, 2007

Aunt Karin and Grandma Joyce were visiting and so there were more people to read to Reid but the extra people also mean that I have to be that much more vigilant about what is being read – and let’s face it, more often than not I don’t get them written down. We read:

Reid also conned Melissa into reading to her after the Robbie Burns dinner:

I love reading!

Saturday, February 10th, 2007

Yesterday morning, I was reading to Reid while she was having a potty break. She looked up at me earnestly and declared, “I love reading!” and smiled. I told her that I love reading, too. And I do. Especially to a girl who appreciates it as much as Reid does.

Have a great day! I hope it includes some time for reading.

Books we read, February 9th

Friday, February 9th, 2007

In the morning we read:

In the evening we read:

Remembering when Reid was born

Friday, February 9th, 2007

Zachary’s birth has brought back many memories of when Reid was born. Today at lunch I told of Ken filling out a form in the hospital – maybe the health card form that you have to fill out before you can take the baby home so that they know they’ll get paid – and when he got to the question about sex, his answer was, “She better never …” And that was when he really felt like a father, all protective-like.

Ken and I have also talked about the “boot camp” that the first few days were, when sleep deprivation and feeling out of our depth prevailed. We haven’t talked about how he was sick with his kidney stone before and after Reid came but I doubt either of has forgotten.

When I was at the emergency room a couple weeks ago with pneumonia, I was in the Monfort Hospital, the place we took Ken when he had the kidney stone. With the distance of time, I sort of laughed to myself remembering how I wasn’t sure how to get to that hospital, though we had practiced driving to the one where I would have Reid, and the panic on the faces of the other patients when I walked in nine months pregnant and how the one said that I should walk right up to the nurse and not worry about the man who was speaking with her. I explained I was with the man and my baby wasn’t coming anytime soon and everyone relaxed. A week later, I had Reid and Ken still had his stone. On the Thursday after Reid was born, we had to take Ken back to the emergency room. I dropped him off at the door and parked the car. And realized that I didn’t know how to disconnect the car seat from the base. I puzzled over it, hot and stressed and hormonal from just having had a baby and was starting to panic when I discovered the bright, red release latch. It never occurred to me to take Reid out of the seat. Sleep deprivation will do that to you. Once we got Ken settled, Reid and I left because hospitals are not a good place for babies. Melissa came to sit with Reid later that evening and I crawled into bed for a while. She assured me that holding a baby for a couple of hours would be a pleasure. Two and a half years later, I understand that she really meant it. I love my Reid who is a getting to be a “big durl” but I’d love to hold a swaddled newborn for awhile, too.

And even for someone with a terrible memory, it all seems like yesterday.

Remembering when Reid was born

Friday, February 9th, 2007

Zachary’s birth has brought back many memories of when Reid was born. Today at lunch I told of Ken filling out a form in the hospital – maybe the health card form that you have to fill out before you can take the baby home so that they know they’ll get paid – and when he got to the question about sex, his answer was, “She better never …” And that was when he really felt like a father, all protective-like.

Ken and I have also talked about the “boot camp” that the first few days were, when sleep deprivation and feeling out of our depth prevailed. We haven’t talked about how he was sick with his kidney stone before and after Reid came but I doubt either of has forgotten.

When I was at the emergency room a couple weeks ago with pneumonia, I was in the Monfort Hospital, the place we took Ken when he had the kidney stone. With the distance of time, I sort of laughed to myself remembering how I wasn’t sure how to get to that hospital, though we had practiced driving to the one where I would have Reid, and the panic on the faces of the other patients when I walked in nine months pregnant and how the one said that I should walk right up to the nurse and not worry about the man who was speaking with her. I explained I was with the man and my baby wasn’t coming anytime soon and everyone relaxed. A week later, I had Reid and Ken still had his stone. On the Thursday after Reid was born, we had to take Ken back to the emergency room. I dropped him off at the door and parked the car. And realized that I didn’t know how to disconnect the car seat from the base. I puzzled over it, hot and stressed and hormonal from just having had a baby and was starting to panic when I discovered the bright, red release latch. It never occurred to me to take Reid out of the seat. Sleep deprivation will do that to you. Once we got Ken settled, Reid and I left because hospitals are not a good place for babies. Melissa came to sit with Reid later that evening and I crawled into bed for a while. She assured me that holding a baby for a couple of hours would be a pleasure. Two and a half years later, I understand that she really meant it. I love my Reid who is a getting to be a “big durl” but I’d love to hold a swaddled newborn for awhile, too.

And even for someone with a terrible memory, it all seems like yesterday.