Archive for February, 2007

The weekend that was – Saturday

Tuesday, February 20th, 2007

Kindermusik was cancelled on Saturday, offering us lots of time to sleep in. Reid graciously refused the offer and got up at her usual time. Such a polite and predictable child! We played at home for a while and then all three of us piled in the car to go to the “Snowflake Kingdom” at Jacques Cartier park in Gatineau. But first, and there is always a “but first” when I leave the house – just ask Ken –  we had to go to Zellers to get new boots for Reid and take her pile of library books that was nearly as tall as her back. Reid had such cold feet when we were out with Grandma Joyce and Aunt Karin that Aunt Karin brought Reid new socks. I noticed Reid’s feet were still icy after shovelling the driveway on Friday and it was a relatively mild day. You’d think kids’ boots would be warm enough, even if you get them at Loblaws.  Instead, I invested in some warmer looking Zellers boots and her feet were all toasty. I’m unsure what to do with the non-warm boots, though. Should I donate them so that a kid with no boots gets cold but not frozen feet or do I throw them away? Such big decisions I face ;+)

We parked under the Museum of Civilization since even with my faulty memory I remembered the ordeal of finding street parking last year. Our car would be toasty warm and we would have access to an indoor bathroom arriving and leaving. Good planning, eh? Reid and I went down the snow/ice slides a few times. As we started our slide each time, Reid was excited but by the time we were on the flat, slow-down part, she was saying, “Me no like it, me no like it”. Once we got stood up, though, Reid said she wanted to go again. She’ll be a roller coaster fan, maybe. The kind that screams her head off and then gets back in line. After sliding, we noticed the horses pulling the sleighs and so, of course, went for a ride. Ken stayed with the stroller. He isn’t as confident in the good behaviour of strangers as I am. I would have just left it. Reid really enjoyed the figure eights and waving to Daddy each time we passed him.  At some point, Reid must have spied someone with a sucker because she was asking for one and so we went off in search of them. Last year I bought a cinnamon sucker that I just threw out in the last week but I was game to try again. After much deliberation, and some mixing of stock, Reid chose orange and I chose watermelon. I had a nostalgic flashback to my BA-days when I used to get watermelon Jolly Ranchers but Ken and Reid weren’t impressed with the story.

Finally, I dragged them to the snow sculptures. Reid was saying, “no scupters” and Ken was thinking something similar quite loudly but I pressed on. I like the snow sculptures but it seems I am the only one in my immediate family to feel that way. Reid is more of a fan of the ice sculptures and Ken needs warmer outdoor gear before he becomes a fan of either.

We ate lunch at the Cafe du musee (you’ll have to imagine the accents). Reid and I ate outrageously expensive slices of pizza and a cup full of melon and pineapple. Of course, Ken has sent me a note about salmonella in cantaloupe so this is now a worrysome thing but the fruit seemed like a good idea at the time. I didn’t figure Reid would stay awake until we got home, had even prepared myself to rest with her in the car, but she was awake when we got home and so we had our nap in the glider. Reid slept two and a half hours and woke only because I made her. Playing in the snow is good exercise.

We ordered Chinese food for supper and finally had someone to eat the sticky, white rice that comes with the special. Reid turned up her nose at the yummy chicken fried rice but ate lots of the white. I knew there must be people in the world who ate it but I didn’t think they’d ever eat at my house. Reid liked it so much that we were able to hold seconds hostage until she had some chicken and veggies. I don’t require Reid to clean up her but I do limit seconds if she isn’t a variety of the foods offered. She may still blame me if ever her weight isn’t what she wants it to be.

Have a great Melissa birthday! (It’s like Elvis’ birthday but celebrated by somewhat fewer people ;+).

What we read, February 19th

Monday, February 19th, 2007

We started the day with our ABC Box from Discovery Toys. I didn’t write exactly which ones we read. Reid noticed that the back cover has the small case letter, whereas I usually only show her the upper case on the front cover. We read many books with Reid commenting often on the upper and lower case letters in the corner of each page. It is interesting to see the way that Reid uses these books change. When she was very young, she enjoyed holding them and “reading” them alone since they are so little (only 4 pages, including the covers). She learned many words looking at the pictures, too. Now, she is noticing the letter and names the pictures without much thought. I was out for the evening and I know Ken and Reid many books, because they like to read and cuddle together in the green rocker-recliner.

I told you so

Friday, February 16th, 2007

Last night at Melissa’s, Reid wouldn’t eat her supper. Melissa cooks generally the same sort of foods that I do but Reid is often too busy or too interested in the other toys or maybe the slight differences are distracting. In any case, this is not unusual. She will often eat bread and veggies but last night Melissa had a baguette, which is a treat for her family but Reid prefers Melissa’s white bread. Reid had eaten peppers and cauliflower on the way from daycare and then only one piece of the baguette but since the crust to non-crust ratio is unfavourable she stopped there. She drank some millk, too. Reid came be pretty stubborn. Me, too, and so I didn’t offer her an alternate supper. Am I a bad mama?

Reid slept poorly and was up at 4:45 insisting it was “waking up time.” I tried to convince her she was wrong but she cried and so we got up. I offered her crackers and she gobbled a few up. When she first got up Reid had told me, “My sick” but I think it was the supper-skipping and inadequate sleep. She perked up and by the time I was done showering Reid and Ken were cuddling and giggling and having fun.

I was pretty slow getting ready, though. On the way to work I missed my stop by three stops. I am lucky I don’t operate heavy machinery for a living. The rest of the day went pretty well and since the sun is shining and the temperature is minus six, I’m looking forward to seeing Ken and Reid.

Happy (belated) National Flag Day

Friday, February 16th, 2007

Happy National Flag Day, just one day late. I hope you celebrated appropriately. I printed some colouring pages and Reid coloured one on Wednesday to get our house decorated. For the last while, Reid has been wanting others to colour for her and she asked me to colour the flag. When I encouraged her to do it instead, we discussed which parts needed to be red and she carefully coloured a few scribbles in the bars and leaf. I’ve never before noticed her trying so hard to put a particular colour in a specific place. She did pretty well. These areas weren’t fully coloured but there wasn’t much outside of the flag area either. I only wish that I had thought to talk Reid into wearing her Canada Day outfit yesterday. Ah well, she has grown so much that it probably wouldn’t have fit.

Switching topics (I tell you because Dad once told me when we were hoeing that it’s confusing when I change topics without warning.)

One of the “books” that we have been reading lately is the page-a-day Cat Calendar that features B. Kilban cartoons. We read the pictures from January 1st through the current day, discussing each as we come to it. There are cats skiing, skating, playing basketball and others playing football and still others do other stuff. I think Reid’s favourite so far is one of a big cat laying under the covers looking grumpily from the pillow while a smaller cat is sitting on top of him. We have decided that the little cat is saying, “Wake up, wake up, wake up!” And the Daddy cat is saying, “Go away!” Reid decided that the grumpy cat was the Daddy. Ken protests that he wouldn’t never say, “Go away,” and he wouldn’t.

Quick, where are those alphabet blocks?

Thursday, February 15th, 2007

Before we had Reid, before I was pregnant, even before we decided to have a baby, Ken received some alphabet blocks in his stocking one year. Now that Reid has fallen in love with letters, I’m wondering where those blocks are. There is a chance that I have given them away but I really don’t think I was that organized. We have a set of Discovery Toys books, one for each letter that we used to read quite often. Reid liked the pictures in some a lot and so carried them with her. My house has since eaten a few, including (of course) the letter R. Yet another reason I need those folks from Clean Sweep to come over.

This morning as Reid and I were eating breakfast at Reid’s little table, Reid glanced at her easel and said, “Us are there. ‘R’ for Reidie and Uncle Roge.” True, enough, the letters that represent many of the people in Reid’s world were right there.

Yesterday, I read a blog post about alphabet blocks and making an alphabet book with your child. How long has doing this been on my to do list? Ask me in a month if I have finally done it.

If Reid were on the “Dating Game”

Thursday, February 15th, 2007

Since it’s Valentine’s Day, I’ve been thinking how Reid might describe herself if she were on the “Dating Game”. Not that her Dad and I have any intention of letting her date until she is *at least* 30! Here’s what I have come up with:
* My name is Reid “Elizabeff”;
* I like the colour yellow, the number SIX (imagine the enthusiasm) and the letters R and X;
* I don’t own a car but I like to drive other people’s cars when they are parked;
* In my opinion, buses are fascinating. Yellow school buses are my favourite, the little baby buses are the ultimate and I like to think of them as Reidie-buses. Red city buses are pretty good and the great big articulated ones are awe-worthy;
* My daddy is the man in my life right now and with my mama’s help I have stopped tossing off a careless, “I love you” at bedtime and now look at him, smile and say, “I love you” before going back to turning on the lamp or whatever. Daddy sometimes calls me a Stepford child but I don’t know what that means. Mama has only caught a glimpse of my face during this but agrees the change might be disconcerting;
* It’s hard to choose just one book for a favourite, but “Moo, Baa, La La La!” by Sandra Boynton would probably be it but I love so many;
* My favourite songs are “Old Macdonald” – as long as I choose the order of the animals that appear – and a Kindermusik song that goes like this; “Meow, meow, meow, who’s cat art thou? (Pooka says) I am Reidie’s cat. Meow, meow, meow.” Mama changes the sound the animal makes so that we can sing about Max and Zoey and the name so that we can sing about Leo. If Mama says “Clio says” then she is Daddy’s cat.
* My favourite movie is any with Winnie Pooh in it;
* My favourite tv show is “Toopy- Binoo” (Toopy and Binoo); and
* I like taking long walks, sometimes in my stroller, sometimes walking alone but slowly, sometimes being carried and sometimes running in my wiggly sort of way. Usually I do all of these things in a single long walk.

Books we read, February 15th

Thursday, February 15th, 2007

In the morning, we read:

  • Jesse Bear, What Will You Wear? by Nancy White Carlstrom;
  • Soft Shapes – Seasons; and
  • Hippos Go Beserk! by Sandra Boynton.
  • At Melissa’s, we read:

    • Two of the stories in the Big Book of Farmyard Tales by Heather Amery, including:
      • Pig Gets Stuck; and
      • The Naughty Sheep.

    Each of the stories in this treasuries begins with, “This is Apple Tree farm. This is Mrs Boot.” Melissa and Peter have teased that they were going to lend us the book (which we got for their kids for Christmas one year) so that we could read the repetitive beginning in our sleep, too.

    Books we read, February 14th

    Wednesday, February 14th, 2007

    We read:

    Loving letters and treating everyone the same

    Wednesday, February 14th, 2007

    The paper on Reid’s easel offers proof that Grandma Joyce was visiting – her trademark Santa is standing there – and also of Reid’s love of letters. For many, many months, we have been writing Reid’s name on her artwork and saying the letters aloud. Lately, she has been fascinated by “her” letter and the letter belonging to others. Grandma Joyce said that Reid asked for people’s letters and was pleased to hear that my name and Ben’s start with the same letter and also that Daddy’s name and Aunt Karin do as well. Given Reid’s sense of humour, I’m sure she thinks this a funny part of life.

    Reid was very much conscious of treating Aunt Karin and Grandma Joyce equally, I was told. One would have the honour of wiping her bum while the other would be allowed to get her a drink. Reid tends to play favourites and so I this egalitarian treatment was a good thing for two ladies who like to help. The only times it fell apart was when Aunt Karin went to Zellers. The first time, when she was invited, Reid didn’t want to go. The second time, when Aunt Karin wanted to run in and out, Reid insisted on coming. It’s all about timing, isn’t it?

    Fortunately, Grandma Joyce has developed a thick skin over the years. Reid would have Grandma sing songs but then would make her stop mid-word when the feeling struck. At first I was a bit offended when Reid told me to stop singing (oh, stop laughing, I know my singing won’t get me on Canadian Idol). Now, I am okay with it. I learned that from my mom, I guess.

    Books we read, February 13th

    Tuesday, February 13th, 2007

    We were back to our usual routine, with sickness and guests gone and so in the morning we read:

    • All of the stories in the Winnie the Pooh Treasury, plus singing the song. Reid wants to know why Piglet doesn’t have his own song;and
    • Benny’s Bus, twice;
    • but not a House for Hermit Crab by Robert Munsch despite my attempts to convince Reid to choose it.

    In the evening, we read: