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On the road again, Eastern Ontario edition

Tuesday, September 4th, 2007

We lucked into a last minute rental of a cottage in Iroquois, Ontario (just an hour from Ottawa on the St Lawrence River) and so we’re not saying bad things about the people who said they were coming but then had to cancel. It’s funny that we went from a conversation of “if they all come, we’ll have to stack them like cord wood” to “wow, and now so-and-so has cancelled” to “so, what are the chances of a cottage” to “okay, now we have to tell anyone that changes their mind or decides to come that they can’t” in such a short time. There was also Aunt Karin email that said she and Shea were coming and my panicked phone call to explain they weren’t welcome – and her giggling that she knew I’d call before 8 am over her untrue message. I can laugh about it now. In the end, we found a cottage that we’ve thought of renting off and on for a couple of years and all is well.

We decide to do a bit touristing in the area, too. Once we got back from hot air balloon hunting Saturday morning, we packed up the car and headed to Fort Wellington, in Prescott. Ken and I went once a number of years ago, probably in the 1990s and we hadn’t been back. It’s a good historic site – relatively small but well-maintained. There were four costumed interpreters on-site, three of them women although one was dressed as a soldier. I’m not keen on historic cross-dressing but university-aged females do better than their male counterparts on the scored interviews that decide federal government jobs and it would be even more odd to see a fort with four “wives” and only one “soldier”.

We peeked into the officer’s quarters. The furnishings are posh and well-made and look a lot like what we have at home, except for the painted yellow floors. Still, we “oohed” and “ahhed” at what we were seeing. The next stop was the latrine building. In case you haven’t been to Fort Wellington, I’ll describe them:

  • Officers’ latrine: seats one, entrance from the end of the building;
  • Women and children’s latrine: seats two over round holes in board, entrance from the front; and
  • Soldier’s latrine: seats 8,  a wooden frame for perching precariously on while dangling one’s bottom, plus a tin cover long basin as urinal, entrance from the front.

Guess which one Reid was most interested in trying out. That’s right, the one where she was most likely to end up at the bottom of the pit. The information panel reported that the latrines were excavated in 1990 and one of the artifacts that was found was a child’s doll. My heart squeezed for that little girl who lost her dolly so long ago.

We climbed up the earthworks to look at a canon and Reid climbed on the carriage but not on the gun itself. I just couldn’t have let that happen, not having worked in forts for 4 years in university, knowing first hand that kids can get hurt and also that it’s disrespectful to artillery soldiers. We rolled down the ramp. Reid seems to have trouble getting her top and bottom halves to roll in sync. Sometimes her legs trailed and sometimes they led, it was funny to see either way. We went down the stone “hall” into the lookout area, with Reid making comments all the while, “It’s bumpy, Mama. You hold my hand; I’ll hold Daddy’s. Watch your feet.”

The woman who was dressed as a soldier’s wife in the barracks was wonderful. She encouraged Reid to lay on a bed and explained how whole families shared a double bunk-space with kids sleeping on the floors underneath the bunk, joined by rats and cat or dogs, of course. She helped Reid try on a dress and a day cap and showed her a bonnet. Then, she showed Reid the pants the soldiers would have worn and placed the tunic over Reid’s shoulders. She showed Reid a shoe that was not cut for right or left foot and Reid put it on and kept it on until we left the display. She got out a backpack, wooden canteen and cartouche (ammunition pouch) and let Reid try each on in turn. The interpretor provided Reid-sized bits of information for each item and more details if Ken or I seemed interested. Reid “scrubbed” the floor with a cleaning brush and then we went up to the floor with the play fort and Ken read the displays while Reid and I went around the exterior “hall”. I can’t remember the military term for it, but there were firing slots in the floor to allow defence against attackers who might try to destroy the barracks. There was a metal outline of a soldier demonstrating this firing stance in one corner. Reid looked at him and continued around the perimeter, calling out “look another soldier” as she started her second circuit.

Throughout the visit, we tried to explain the canons, look out and all in Reid-understandable words and concepts. She seemed happy with what she was hearing and asked questions that showed she was understanding what we said. Small children don’t have a good grasp of time but do accept “a long, long time ago.” Of course, the War of 1812 and when Mama was a baby share the same place in history more or less but that’s okay as long as Reid knows that soldiers have been protecting us for a long, long time.

We ate our lunch on the grass near the parking lot with the intent of Reid sleeping while we drove to the cottage. Instead she watched the river and talked to us on the drive, which would have been too short for a proper nap.

Riding the rails with Reid

Saturday, August 18th, 2007

We made it to the train station pretty much at the time I’d planned last Friday but 30 minutes later than Ken had thought wise. I’ll start by confessing that he was right. Reid and I jumped out with the stroller and our bags at the drop-off zone and Ken went to park. I used the self check-in kiosk to convert my web reservation receipt to a ticket. Note to self: use the kiosk everytime. It’s too easy. When I asked the Via guy about pre-boarding, he told me to go straight on. I delayed long enough to attract Ken’s attention and he hurried us acros the tracks and got his good-bye kisses and hugs. He never even looked like he considered saying, “I told you so,” though it would have been well-deserved.

Our trip from Ottawa to Toronto was pretty uneventful, except for the bathroom incident. Reid and I fingerpainted with those magical Color Wonder Crayola fingerpaints. We read some of the Nick Jr books that I bought from Costco. Reid, of course, fell in love with Big Sister Dora! adapted by Alison Inches and Show Me Your Smile! A Visit to the Dentist (also about Dora) by Christine Ricci. Books based on tv shows generally rub me the wrong way; the stories tend not to flow real well. The Dora the Explorer television shows always make me think that they’re re-purposed video games; the way their written you can imagine being told to “click here.” The books are very similar. At least Reid can easily point at parts of the page. I let Reid watch a Franklin dvd on my laptop. I wasn’t sure if she’d be interested in Franklin but she was. She was also interested in a nap and so was I. I’m shorter than the planned-for passenger. My feet don’t touch the ground when I’m sitting with my back against the seat. My legs ached by the time our nap was over.

When we were waiting to get off the train, an older lady said to me, “Your little girl is very well-behaved.” It was true but still, I told her to please be careful not to jinx me since Reid and I had to get to Chatham still. We both laughed and I was proud of Reid. And maybe proud of me, too, for keeping her entertained.

At Union Station, we took the elevator from the platform. I was glad that it worked this, unlike our arrival in Toronto in June. We went outside briefly, me thinking that Reid would enjoy being able to see the sun and run a bit but she wanted to go inside. It was hot and humid in the station but I guess if you’re riding in the stroller, it doesn’t bother you too much. I’d denied Reid’s request for a hot dog and bought her a hamburger Happy Meal instead. I’m not sure that that was the healthier choice but I thought so. I need to research fast food health sheets.

After supper, I had Reid run around the pre-boarding lounge. She kept herself busy for a bit and then wanted to race me. I obliged her since I’m such a strong believer in running Reid’s wiggles out before we get onto an airplane or train. There was a lady with a two year-old sitting and reading to him. The little guy grinned to see us running around but I didn’t think it appropriate to invite him to join us. I wanted to, though. He was being so good but it seemed like a waste to use his sitting still energy when there was time and room to run. Sometimes, I restrain myself from interfering in someone else’s parenting but I don’t have to restrain myself from commenting. Of course, I didn’t hear or see him on the train; maybe he has a greater reserve of sitting still energy than Reid does.

Once on the train to Chatham, I bought Reid a can of orange juice. I’d said “no” initially but Reid asked for the juice in such a weak, parched voice that I changed my mind. Before we got to Oakville, Reid spilled the orange juice. The kindly older ladies sitting across the aisle in the four-seater took Reid in with them while I did my best to clean up. I took Reid to the closest bathroom, in the next car, and washed her up and changed her into pajamas. As we came out of the bathroom, the service manager told us that we should stay in the new car as our car was full. We agreed and settled ourselves into the nearest seats – in VIA 1.

First class train travel is at least as good as first class air travel. The chairs were wide, reclined far enough to sleep comfortably and there was lots of leg room in front of them. When you actually pay for a VIA 1 ticket, the steward brings food and drinks at no additional charge. If Reid wasn’t travelling for free in Comfort class (read: economy), I’d be very tempted to pay the difference between my ticket and first class. When I was pregnant I travelled first class a few times. With my big belly on the second trip to Chatham, I could barely open the tray to eat my meal.

Reid watched Franklin again and a new PBS show, Word something or other – a preview dvd that I got at the BlogHer conference. Reid liked the new show enough that I’ll watch it and provide an actual review in the next week.

We got into Chatham very near to our scheduled 10:30 arrival time. Reid had fallen asleep about 9:00 and so I had a dead weight to carry off the train. I got Reid into Uncle Roger’s arms still asleep though she roused when I turned to go back for the stroller. It got worse when I pinched her leg with Grandma Joyce’s super deluxe car seat that has a crazily short buckle strap. She fell back to sleep in short order, though.

Uncle Roger was impressed with our two backpacks and one shoulder bag for luggage. I was impressed, too. My plan had been to bring only the two backpacks but I couldn’t cut back enough on what I was bringing. Ken would blame it on my electronics -iPod, Blackberry, laptop, 2 cameras and a video camera. But I’d say those things were necessary. Reid didn’t play with all of the toys that I packed but it’s impossible to predict what will engage her and we still had the 8 or so hour return trip.

Worrisome words on the eve of our trip

Friday, August 10th, 2007

As we drove to Melissa’s Thursday night, I was telling Reid about our big day.

Me: You’ll go to daycare in the morning and then Daddy and Mama will get you at lunchtime. Then, Mama and Reid will take a train to go see Grandma Joyce and your uncles and aunts and cousins.
Reid: Um-huh. [Pause] Why we no drive?
Me: Daddy needs the car to get to and from work while we’re away. Plus, the train is WAY MORE FUN. [Maybe trying too hard but I was worried.]
Reid: I no like the train!
Me: If we drive, I’ll have to stay in the front in my seat and you’ll have to stay in your seat.
Reid: Let’s take Daddy to work and then we drive ourselves.

It would have been a good solution if only Ken had a bed at his office. There is a kitchen and a shower, you know. He’d have to stay outside from 6 pm til 8 am each night but I’m sure he’d want to do that for Reid. Too bad about the lack of bed.

Reid mentioned again this morning that she didn’t like the train but she didn’t make a scene. We’re nearly 3 hours into our trip, she has been good so far. We ate lunch, napped more than an hour and coloured a bit. Then, I offered up videos and she’s been entranced since then.

The train is full. Reid and I snagged a 4 seater and are sharing it with two young women (18 and early 20s). They haven’t said much and don’t take up much of our floor space and so we’re all good. I bought Reid a chocolate milk when the snack cart first came by after lunch. When the lady asked if we needed anything, Reid said, “I’m firsty,” in a pathetic little voice. What could I do? When the lady came back, I asked for chips. Reid likes them and I was craving the salt. I wonder if Reid knew I was treating me and not just me.

One tired girl, okay two

Tuesday, July 31st, 2007

I was worried that we’d get a call from daycare. There’s a kick out provisions that mentions that the kids must be capable of keeping up with the usual activities. No calls came in and no one said anything to Ken when he picked Reid up. It was a definite working mom guilt situation.

We got Reid bathed and into her room a bit early. When I told her that it was time to give good night kisses, she declared that she wasn’t tired. She sobbed as I told her that I would read one story. “I’m not tired,” she cried, too tired to understand that the fact that one story was worthy of tears proved I was correct. We both slept 11 hours. What a difference sleep makes, eh?

Dresses are not clothes

Tuesday, July 31st, 2007

While we were in Chicago, I only ever offered Reid dresses to wear. She’d received a couple new ones for her birthday and we had another that I love but that she hasn’t worn as much as I’d like. She gets so dirty at daycare that I hesitate to send her in a dress. When I do suggest them, she often rejects them with a “no, I want clothes.” She doesn’t balk at them while we were travelling, though. Maybe because she knows that there isn’t a whole drawer of other options. She didn’t know that I’d packed enough shorts and t-shirts that she could have worn instead. I didn’t want her to remember Chicago as the city of tears (shed over dresses).

Note to self – and to you – vacations are a great time to try out dresses, lederhosen, or whatever else your kids where reluctantly.

Chicago, day 4

Tuesday, July 31st, 2007

I knew that I’d accumulated lots of stuff from the vendors and sponsors at the conference but I hadn’t really worried because one of the things I’d received was a tote bag that closed securely. Still, when it was time to pack up, there were many things needing a home. Reid had woke up after only 8 hours of sleep instead of her usual 10 and so was squirrelly enough to be anything but helpful. She was feeling silly and full of beans but not helpful. It could have been much, much worse. By the time we got the car cleaned out (thanks to Shea) and everything stowed in bags, I felt like we’d really accomplished something. Reid and I were able to fit our things into the two backpacks and one duffel bag that we brought and all of the giveaway stuff fit into one of the new bags.

I should confess that I’d asked Grandma Joyce to send tops and pants for me to wear so that I wouldn’t have to find space for them. The bonus is that I didn’t have to bring home and launder those two outfits. Ken will be grateful. I’m not sure what I would have left at home to make room. On my own, I could have gotten along with CareB and the tractor blanket but Reid wouldn’t have been so easy to get along with. Ken would pipe up at this point to suggest I could have left behind one of the cameras or the video camera but that just wouldn’t be me.

We went to Denny’s for breakfast and Reid had her San Diego “regular” breakfast of sausage links, eggs and pancakes. She started out dipping the sausage and pancake pieces into her syrup, just like I was doing but that was a messy proposition for a little girl, no matter how careful. Poor Reid dribbled syrup on herself and didn’t like the experience. She told me to take the syrup away.

We tried again to find the Sears Tower when we got downtown but even with the Google Maps instructions we couldn’t find it. Did I mention the upper and lower streets? That’s what I blame it on. We ended up parked blocks away because I thought we were close and should just walk. No go.

We went instead to Navy Pier to go to the Chicago Children’s Museum. Aunt Karin and Shea were going to go on a harbour cruise but Shea was intrigued by the museum and so they stayed for a while. Reid sang and played the drums while Shea used turntables to play a bit of hip hop (or would that be rap?) After a few other exhibits, Shea and Aunt Karin went in search of a boat and Reid and I continued our exploration.

There were many fun things to do. Reid bowled a few frames. At first she held the ball and knocked over the pins but I convinced her to go to the other end of the lane. Reid dressed as a butterfly and there was even a spare set of wings for me, and also as a spider, leaf and bumble bee. There was a dinosaur dig, a water area, and a “forested” area with a camp setup. There was even a slide with slats of wood in it that sounded like a piano when the child slid down it. The first time Reid went down it, she stopped herself as soon as she heard the first sound. It really didn’t sound like a piano. I pointed out the chimes underneath after and then the next time, she slid more quickly and it was musical.

Reid’s favourite, though, was the urban area. She got to drive a minature city bus (with regular sized rules stickers) and also a car. One of the tires on the car came off and the kids could change it. There was also a gas pump. Reid knew just what to do with the nozzle. There was a grocery store and Reid did a bit of shopping, played cashier and then mopped up. We didn’t have a chance to see all of the exhibits but would definitely go back if ever we’re back in Chicago.

We had lunch at Gino’s East, the pizza place that the shuttle bus driver had recommended when I asked for a good place to get Chicago-style deep-dish pizza. It was an interesting place – just across from Ed Debevics – with friendly staff and great pizza. There was writing all over the walls and Shea and Reid happily added to the graffiti. I took a few pictures. I hope I didn’t get any profanity in the background. Reid was too tired for words and cried broken heartedly when I cut up her piece of pizza. It was too thick (hence the “deep-dish”) to be picked up, we thought. Reid wanted to try. She was too tired to let go of her angst, though, and we ended up taking the pizza with us. Then, Aunt Karin and Shea kept it and Reid and I ate had to airport food! Just kidding.

We got to the airport within 10 minutes of the 2 hour advance checkin as suggested by the airline.  Once checked in, we got Reid to run about to burn off extra energy. Shea spun her in circles until she was dizzy enough to sit hard on the floor. Reid had many kisses to give, though Shea got more than his fair share. Finally, it was time for actual good-bye hugs and kisses.

We got through the security with no alarms sounding and without any lines forming behind us as I set up the stroller, got our backpacks back in their places, and re-attached the car seat. We found our gate and then the board saying our plane was late.

I led Reid on an expedition to find some food. From three separate places, we bought fruit and yogurt, a container of veggies and a cheddar-herb bagel. I don’t really want to think of the total cost. Reid fell upon the veggies like she hadn’t had any in weeks. After a few mouthfuls, she noticed the dip and had me open it. I don’t eat dip and so I’m not sure where she’s developed her taste for it.

Reid slipped on some water as we walked into the bathroom, soaking herself and smacking her head – or at least that’s the only place I can think of her getting the bruise in the middle of her forehead – but it caused only a bit of fussing. I got her to put on a diaper instead of her wet underwear but couldn’t find her pajamas. Where, of where, did I put them? Finally I settled on the short and t-shirt she had in her backpack and hoped for a warm airplane.

There was a selfish couple who didn’t seem to understand that people with small kids get to pre-board because they need the extra time who were trying to board ahead of us but the gate crew got us ahead of them. I bet that they don’t give up their seats on the bus to pregnant women, either. Our flight was uneventful and the woman seated behind us complimented me on what a good traveller Reid was. Is there anything a parent wants to hear more at the end of a flight? There was a jetway when we landed and so I didn’t have to carry her and her stroller up the stairs like when we came back from San Diego.

We were happy to see Ken. Reid hadn’t succumbed to sleep on the journey and so was able to give Ken his hugs and kisses. She did finally fall asleep in the car on the way home and stayed that way while I popped her into bed. She is a good traveller, you know, now she needs to learn to sleep on planes so that I can.

Chicago, day 3

Monday, July 30th, 2007

We all stayed up really late when we were in Chicago and got up early anyway. I think that Saturday was the day that most showed the lack of sleep. When we met up at 6:45, I had to ask many times what they’d done to piece together more than slow walking and no museums or major attractions.

After returning to the Hollister store to have an anti-theft device removed from a pair of shorts that Shea had bought, Aunt Karin made Reid out of her stroller on the way to a restaurant as her oh-so-heavy eyelids weren’t staying up. Reid didn’t fight the direction and Aunt Karin was surprised. Reid simply turned to Shea and asked to be picked up. Shea picked her up and Reid snuggled her head onto his shoulder and closed her eyes again. Mean Aunt Karin told Shea that he had to put Reid down and hold her hand. It’s hard to fall asleep and walk at the time but Reid puts forth a good effort. Thankfully she doesn’t walk in her sleep but she is chatty enough while sleeping.

They walked and walked and walked in an ultimately futile attempt to find the Sears Tower. You’d think it would be easy to find, being so tall, but it wasn’t. Between the lower and upper streets of the same name that literally run one above the other and the fact that we only ever had access to really bad street maps, they never managed to find the Sears Tower. The maps in the tourist brochures were heavily focused on the Chicago Transit Authority. At any point, you would know what bus or train line went where but it was difficult to figure out *why* you’d want to get there.

We all met at Navy Pier at 6:45. I bought tickets for Reid to ride on Thomas the Tank Engine again. She spent a good portion of the first ride looking at the large stuffed Hello Kitty in the seat behind her. Reid got to sit at the front for the second ride and steered with enthusiasm and rang the bell when the little girl with her wasn’t. Reid had lots of fun but I’m hoping (for mine and Ken’s sake) that when Thomas comes to Ottawa that both he and his tracks are larger. I’m not sure an average 10 year old would fit on the wee little bench seats.

We went to Ed Debevics restaurant for supper. It was listed on the “Fun things for families” page in the brochure I had been given at the O’Hare airport. It was raucous and brightly decorated but the schtick seemed to be about being rude. Sort of like the diner in the Byward Market in Ottawa but with bad attitude. A couple of times the wait staff stopped serving and danced either on the counter or on dividers between two rooms. Shea liked the surliness (have I mentioned he is 13 lately ;+) and Reid liked the dancing. Aunt Karin and I were pleased with our dinners but underwhelmed by the atmosphere.

Reid fought to stay awake for the train ride home. By the time we got to the hotel (I won’t be precise or you’ll be sure I’m a bad mama) she was hyper from lack of sleep but she conked out fast once I got her into bed.

You can’t do that when travelling on the Chicago Transit Authority

Sunday, July 29th, 2007

I took a train and then bus to the BlogHer07 conference Friday. On the train, my fellow riders and were asked to be considerate of others when speaking on a cell phone. A good reminder, especially given that the noise of the train would require people to yell. Since I had only my Blackberry and no business calls to make, I stayed off the phone.

On the bus, I heard a recording that “Eating, drinking, smoking, gambling and radio-playing [were] prohibited.” It hadn’t really occurred to me that gambling would be a good thing to do while riding on public transit but now that they’ve mentioned it …

On Saturday morning, soliciting was added to the list of things you can’t do while travelling with the Chicago Transit Authority.  Now that I hadn’t planned to do and won’t be doing even though they’ve put it into my mind.
 
For a such a rules-based organization the CTA was pretty good to me. The trains were sometimes slow or stopped due to construction but they were clean and not overly crowded. A “thanks for taking the CTA” sign or message would have balanced all of the rules, though.

Chicago, day 2

Saturday, July 28th, 2007

Reid hung out with Aunt Karin and Shea while I was at the BlogHer07 conference that brought us to Chicago. Reid decided to stay in the hotel room while Aunt Karin took me to the train. She is totally addicted to Nickelodeon and the Disney channel. Once we left, though, Shea said that Reid started to wail and say she wanted me. Being a quick-thinking fellow, Shea asked if Reid wanted to hold the remote. She said, “yes,” and stopped crying immediately. Good thinking, eh?

The details of what happened during the day are vague to me. Aunt Karin and Shea were pretty tired when we met up about 8:00 and Reid was modifying all nouns with “poopy”. I do know that they went to the Shedd Aquarium. I’d thought Reid would love it since she’d really enjoyed the Birch Aquarium at Scripp’s when we went to San Diego. The admission prices were pretty high, though, and so Aunt Karin insisted that they stay a bit. Shea told me that it wasn’t as bad as he’d expected. I thinking that might be damning with faint praise.

The highlight for Shea seemed to be taking a taxi to get to the aquarium. He’d never ridden in a taxi before. I’m tempted to say, “or at least not that he remembers,” but I bet he is accurate in his comment. The family I come from is one that drives on vacation.  And everywhere else, actually. Have I ever mentioned that my dad built, and my brother still builds, vehicles for Chryslers? Drive domestic and drive a lot is the motto.

The Hollister store was high on Shea’s list of places to go and they went to the Apple store to use a computer to find out the location. I’m wanting to go to the Apple store for its own offerings (oops, I’ve made Ken cringe, I’m sure). I brazenly asked to touch a woman’s iPhone at the conference yesterday and so I won’t need to touch one at the Apple store. They did make it to the Hollister store. Shea got some things there but Reid came away empty handed.

I called to see where they were when my cocktail party ended. They had just left Navy Pier, where I was, and so they waited for me at the trolley stop and I caught the next one. It was 8:00 and neither Aunt Karin nor I had eaten. We found a Starbucks/Bread Company combination restaurant just up the street. We shared a salad and sandwich while Reid literally ran in circles. She sang a bit, counted to 10 several times – getting all the numbers in the right place, and kept up a running commentary while she ran. There were few people in the restaurant but those that were there were smiling and so I didn’t have to be the heavy.

Shea told me that many people had commented on how cute Reid was. She was wearing a dress that she got from Sari, Melissa and Melissa’s men and she was a happy girl. Reid is at her cutest when she is happy. Having a kid with you in a strange city is a great ice-breaker. People talk to you or just smile as you walk by. As long as they don’t touch the kid, it’s all good. Whenever we look like we’re not sure where to go, someone stops to help us. They’re looking out for Reid, I think, since I don’t have people volunteering to help me when I’m alone.

Finally, we got onto the train to go back to the hotel. Reid told me that she was tired. I resisted the urge to say, “That’s why I’ve been telling you to lay down.” And instead I said, “Mama will watch over you.” Reid closed her eyes and cuddled with CareB and was asleep in seconds. She stayed asleep when I put her into the car and then when I took her out and carried her to the room. That’s a tired girl!

Chicago, day 1

Friday, July 27th, 2007

Reid was bright-eyed from the moment I tried to ease her out of bed at 4:10. We got to the airport and through the check-in, security and customs process with no trouble other than I had to give up my coffee before I was ready. I’d hoped to keep it until we were x-rayed but that was a no-go. I burned my tongue gulping some and then turned it over to Ken. He wouldn’t have even drank it, let alone appreciated it. Our flight went well and we were able to check in as soon as we arrived (about 8:30). Reid and I unpacked, watched some cartoons, ate brunch and had a nap. Aunt Karin and Shea arrived about an hour into the nap and so we all headed for the Lincoln Park Zoo. It’s a free zoo and so we were guilt free when we paid to go on the swan paddle boats and the endangered animal carousel and even when we bought Dippin Dots (yum!) since we were helping support the zoo.

In the children’s zoo section, Reid went in the treetop climbing structure – a lot like the climbers at McDonalds – which was built of bent wood covered with carpet suspended at different levels and the structure was covered in a  wire mesh. It was marked as suitable for 3-8 year olds. Reid had a bit of trouble when she first started and so I changed her from her dress into shorts and a t-shirt. With a boost from Shea, though, she began her journey. Shea beside Reid, but on the ground, as she worked her way along the course. She made it to the highest part and through a silo before balking. At a slope where she needed to scoot down on her bum, she decided she needed someone to come and get her. Of course, that couldn’t happen. At 13 Shea is taller than me and Aunt Karin, even if he is less round. A few bigger and more aggressive/confident kids pushed past and then there was a little girl who went by gently. We told Reid to follow the girl. The little girl must have noticed Reid’s dilemna because the patted the path Reid needed to take and went slowly, watching to be sure Reid followed her. Reid followed her through the second half of the climber. Me, with my heart in my throat unable to come to Reid’s rescue. At some point the girl’s father noticed and was calling up to his daughter to be sure she helped Reid – in Spanish. I wouldn’t have guessed that she and Reid weren’t speaking to each other in English, the girl was so competently encouraging and directing Reid along. Maybe they weren’t speaking at all. When the girls got out, I had Reid go over and say, “gracias” and I thanked the girl and her dad, too. Reid was so proud for having got all of the way through the climber. I was so grateful for some random 3 or 4 year old girl who helped. What wonderful creatures children are! And I owe a thank you to Dora the Explorer for teaching Reid to say gracias. Who knew we’d ever need it? I have tears in my eyes as I write this. It’s hard to watch your child struggle. I think Reid only knows that I think she is fabulous for having met the challenge. I hope so anyway.

We saw the usual zebras, giraffes, turtles and so on but no elephants. The lack of elephants caused a bit of incredulity and disappointment on Reid’s part but overall, a good time was had by all and when Shea’s legs were like jelly (and the zoo was closed), we went back to the car. Reid ran about like the silly girl she is in the parkland next to the parking lot. She rolled around in the grass as though she were rolling downhill, walked in mud puddles from the mornings rain, got all dirty and had a blast.

We went for supper at the Rainforest Cafe. I’ve heard about them in Toronto and Vancouver but had never been. Reid loved the decor, especially the animals (of course) and I was impressed, too. You wouldn’t mistake the animals for live ones but they were still cool. I was pleasantly surprised that the food wasn’t outrageously priced. Reid got three mini hotdogs, apple sauce and milk in a souvenir cup for about $5. My supper was a bit more but since it was the first real meal of my day, I splurged. By the time our safari guide brought our bill, Reid was declaring herself tired. She was asleep minutes into our trip back to the hotel.