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Packing for a car trip with kids – Works for Me Wednesday

Wednesday, October 24th, 2007

When Reid and I went to the Great Wolf Lodge earlier this month, we took what seems to be our hundredth extended car trip. I was thinking that I’ve developed some ideas on how to pack a car when travelling with a preschooler.

It really is best to clean out everything that has accumulated in the car. Admit it, there are many toys, articles of clothing and the odd shoe floating around your vehicle. There will be more “stuff” floating about before you get back home. You’ll be glad you spent the time at the outset.

In a bag that the child(ren) can dig through on their own:

1. Pack some books that you can recite or at least tell the overall story without looking at the words.
2. Pack a few of the little toys that you got from fast food restaurants but hid for just such a rainy day. You do hoard them, don’t you? Unwrap them and assemble them, if required before you pack them.
3. Pack some paper, markers and stickers. Seriously consider whether crayons are required. I’ve spent too much time trying to get crayons out of clothing and the car seat cover to whole-heartedly endorse them. Reid likes to play with stickers with pictures and also the letters that are sold in dollar stores for scrapbooking. She isn’t a sticker snob at all – I save the stickers I pick up at conferences that promote products and she plays with them happily.
4. Pack some Playdoh. It might be messy but the tactile experience will be welcome.

Part of the fun for Reid is reaching into her backpack and finding something else to do.

I also try to keep some toys and art supplies aside for the trip back. Even different stickers or a toy that has been in hiding for a while will do the trick.

Keep these things in your control:

* some kid-friendly music. Note that this doesn’t mean that you have to bring only kids’ music but do think of the lyrics of the music you’re bringing. If you have an MP3 player and a way of connecting it to your car stereo, put together a travelling playlist so that you don’t need to be changing CDs on the go. Finally, learn how to move the sound from the front seat to the back seat. Some songs are just better when they are in the kids’ ears rather than yours;
* a few different kinds of not-too-messy snacks. Since you’re packing for a child, accept that there will be some mess. When the time comes, dole them out slowly and don’t tell them everything you’ve got right off the bat;
* a couple of different beverages in spill proof cups. Even if your child has stopped using sippy cups at home, they should use them in the car. Don’t forget that what goes in must come out. Limiting intake is a good idea; and
* paper towels and a wet cloth.

I am pro-electronics person, when they’re used in moderation. We have some nice noise-cancelling headphones and I plug them into the iPod and let Reid watch videos sometimes while we’re travelling. She has an easier time managing the iPod than the laptop.

We’re still packing a portable potty. Reid can “hold it” for quite a long time but it just seems a risky thing to leave behind when it takes up so little room.

Agreeing on and achieving a good temperature is a challenge. I always bring a blanket so that Reid can cover when she is cool or just needs something familiar and comforting. Of course, when Ken is with us, I am often snuggled under a blanket of my own.

We don’t have one of those window blinds and our car windows aren’t particularly tinted. Either of these things would work for me, I guess. Since we don’t use the window blinds, I try to remember to bring sunglasses for Reid.

Last, but certainly not least, don’t forget your child’s lovey. If your child doesn’t have a favoured stuffed animal or toy, you might want to bring one anyway. They may need a best friend in the back seat before the trip is over.

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Great Wolf Lodge 2007, day 3

Tuesday, October 9th, 2007

One of the coolest things about the Great Wolf Lodge is that you can play in the waterpark whenever you arrive, not having to wait until the 3:00 pm check-in, and you can stay until the waterpark closes at 10:00 pm on the day you check-out. I arranged for a late check-out and so we were able to eat both breakfast and lunch in our room. We sandwiched a trip to the waterpark into the middle of the meals, of course.

After lunch, we went took our luggage to our cars, keeping a few clothes with us. When we got back to the waterpark, I noticed that the sign above the door to the outdoor pool had changed from it’s “no exit” sign. Aunt Karin was doubtful but it turned out that I’d read the meaning of the change in sign properly. A victory for little sisters everywhere! It had been foggy and trying to rain when we first got up – the first I’d noticed the weather since we first walked in to the lodge – but the fog was gone and it was beautiful and sunny. The pool outside was one of those gently sloping beaches but with no waves. Reid loved it! It was a good combination – warm water and a bright sun – a “stolen” day of fabulous weather in October that could easily have been cool and rainy as fall often is. We chased each other and played about. Aunt Karin lifted Reid up so that I could swim through her legs. I’d been swimming underwater quite a bit Wednesday and Thursday, much to Reid’s amusement. Aunt Karin and I reminisced about Poppa Howard swimming underwater with a kid on his back. I floated on my back and Reid pulled me around. She told me that I was a boat. I told her that if she was pulling me around, that *she* was a tugboat. Aunt Karin helpfully chimed in with the comment that since Reid was a tugboat, I must be the barge. There are fewer things nicer than being called a “barge”, really. ;+) After a while, we laid back on chaise lounges and ate some Dippin Dots, maybe I earned the barge comment.

We spent some more time warming up in the Cub Club. Given that our turn in the hotel room was over, as I explained to Reid, we were especially grateful for a fun place to hang out and warm up. I’ve been saying “warm up” but must also tell you that the waterpark was kept at 84 degrees and the water in all pools was warm. Reid’s little body just wasn’t able to heat enough of the water to avoid purple lips. Reid coloured a page and then moved on to the large foam blocks at the end of the room. Aunt Karin settled on the floor nearby with her book. I think Reid and I were a bit hard on her head after a while. Being with a 3 year old full time is intense, add that to being with your sister with whom you haven’t lived full time for 30 years, well, escaping into a book is a welcome diversion. I went to the Canoe Coffee Shop for tea, coffee and water and then came back to doing some building with blocks of my own.

Reid didn’t want me to add blocks to her tower but wasn’t reticent about “helping” me with my tower. We had built a humdinger of a tall tower, taller than Reid, and had moved on to a second tower before a wayward block or maybe an unplanned movement by Reid knocked over both towers. She looked a bit shocked and immediately apologized. I assured her that we should just be proud of what we’d done. Reid shrugged off the disappointment and decided to bury herself, with help from me, in the blocks all over the floor. Do all kids bury themselves in toys, sand and the rest? I know I started it with sand at the beach on our Bataan Death March vacation in 2005 but she seeks it out now.

Reid and I went to the Bear Claw Cafe for treats while Aunt Karin was outside for a while. Reid chose a “tuptake” with green icing and flower-shaped cookie sticking from the top. I had a brownie with sprinkles on top. We shared a bottle of water and talked of this and that, just like one does with a girlfriend. Okay, my memory is blurry but I’m probably misleading you. It’s more likely that Reid asked me questions, many questions, with lots of “why’s?” in there. I had just packed up half of the brownie for Aunt Karin when she appeared. With our snack finished, we headed back to the waterpark one last time. Reid didn’t give a thought to any of her previous favourites – not Otter Lake, not the beach at Rainbow Lake, not even Chipmunk Cove – and headed straight for the outdoor pool.  After more splashing, floating and giggling, it was time to dry off again and get ready for dinner with Aunt Elaine.

Being a vain woman, I noticed my hair was somewhat worse for wear and here I was about to have dinner with Aunt Elaine. Of course, I’d last seen her at the family reunion at the Bluewater Fun Park but that wasn’t on the third day of 3 plus hours per day in the water. There is an Aveda Elements Spa in the lodge. I’d hoped to get a pedicure while we were there but hadn’t managed it. Still, I thought of them and decided to cough up the cost of mini bottles of shampoo and conditioner. It turns out that they’ve discontinued the mini bottles because they’re environmentally unfriendly. The receptionist was willing to give me samples from the salon in the little container you get sour cream in for takeout meals. They smelled like they were natural, made from moss or leaves or something, made my hair feel so nice! Another time, I’ll have to go to the spa for sure.

We got to Jack Astor’s in St Catharines before Aunt Elaine and they sat us at a table for 6 covered in kraft paper. I thought the big booth was nice because it allowed Reid room to roam. When Aunt Elaine arrived, she had brought cousin Loralei (sp?) and her little girl, Emma. What a nice surprise! We all ate well. I’d never been to Jack Astor’s before but was certainly satisfied. The next time I’ll have to order the pan bread. Loralei shared a bit of hers and it was good!

We were late getting into the car to head back to Frankford, the midway point of our drive, and no sooner got on the highway before the thick fog settled in. Overall, we made decent time, though, and got to Grandma Barb and Grandpa Terry’s at 10:30. We were awake for maybe 7 minutes after we arrived and slept like logs until 7:20.

You can also read about our first day or even our second day.

Grandma Barb had an appointment and so we ate breakfast and were back on the road by 8:00. The hurrying was good. Reid and I were both eager to get home to Ken. Reid was good in her car seat. She played with stickers, markers and Playdough – new stuff since I’ve been reminded that there is a difference – and talked my ear off. Again we made good time. Reid didn’t speak about being close to home until we were just around the corner from our house. She looked up, saw where we were, and said, “Hey! We’re almost there!” Ken got good hugs and kisses from both us and then we ate lunch and went for a nap, like we’d never been gone.

Great Wolf Lodge 2007, day 2

Monday, October 8th, 2007

Our suite, like all at the Great Wolf Lodge, featured a microwave as well as the usual refrigerator and coffee maker. Being the thrifty sort, I had packed a picnic bag with food for breakfast and lunch and the required dishes to eat them. And, of course, I hit Grandma Joyce up for the spaghetti rice for supper the night before. Reid decided the most tempting breakfast food we’d brought was the bag of Nutrios that had been in our picnic bag since last September’s visit to the Great Wolf Lodge. Aunt Karin and I ate Apples and Cinnamon instant oatmeal and I had flashbacks to eating it as a child. It’s funny, isn’t it, how evocative food is?

We decided to explore the lobby first thing, though we couldn’t leave the room without our bathing suits on and Reid insisted on putting on her lifejacket, too. One of the mascots, either Wiley the Wolf or Biko the Bear, is scheduled to appear at the Antler Shanty at 8:00 am each day. We’d discussed having coffee and toast but the hostess told us that we could only order the $14.99 breakfast buffet. We camped out in the lobby between the hallway where the mascots “live” and the entrance to the restaurant. Reid was willing to give Biko a high-five when he appeared but I still made a point of asking the Cub Club guy if Wiley the Wolf would be back for the evening’s story time. We stuck around for the Wolf Walk, a tour of the lobby led by one of the Cub Club personnel to learn about the various animals in the lobby. They talked about the animals, walked like them and made the sounds that they make. Reid was more inclined to stick close to Aunt Karin (I had snuck to the other side of the lobby to post a blog entry, thanks to the wireless hotspot) and they joined me before the kids made origami wolves.  We decided to skip the 10:00 am Forest Friends Breakfast show and went to the waterpark.

Aunt Karin and I pitched the smallest slides and the single level twisty slides a few times but Reid wasn’t willing to try them. Reid and I tackled the 2+ storey slides on Fort Mackenzie, instead. She was so brave sliding away although she would have preferred for me to be able to slide with her like we did when we went to the Bluewater Fun Park in August. Mostly, though, we played on the “beach” at Rainbow Lake, on the floating animals in Otter Lake and in Chipmunk Cove. And we wrapped up in the hot tub – well, the somewhat warm tub – to turn Reid’s lips back from blue to pink. On our way to the locker room, we discovered a bathing suit dryer – really a mini spinner – that was surprisingly effective in getting the moisture out. I’d been switching bathing suits to keep from having to put on a wet one.

We went into the Cub Club and Reid painted a china pumpkin piggy bank with her head nodding and the slowest blinks possible without closing entirely. We had a quick lunch in our room and then Reid and I went into the Wolf Den for a nap. The bunk is pretty narrow for two but we were really tired. Reid watched a couple of episodes of Toopy and Binoo when she woke up. What did parents do before laptops and DVDs, I ask you?

We went back to the waterpark for another hour and then we went to the Antler Shanty for supper. What a mistake that was! The food was mediocre and the service was awful. I ordered Spider Dogs and Ants on a Log for Reid. The hotdog, with its end split in 4 to make it into a spider, arrived promptly but the celery with cream cheese and raisins required to requests and an extended wait. Aunt Karin and I ordered prime rib, which came with a salad bar. We had had no more than three bites of our salad before the rest of our meal arrived. The Yorkshire puddings were more difficult to cut than the prime rib. The dessert bar section of the meal involved 3 types of squares of the sort one can buy at M&M Meats , soft serve ice cream and yellow Jello. The waitress brought our bill without offering coffee or tea. I ordered some anyway. Aunt Karin’s coffee cost $2.99, wasn’t hot when it arrived and she wasn’t offered a refill. Our waitress’ name tag said that she was a trainer and I can only imagine that the others were even worse. I offer these details as a warning. There is little to complain about at the  Great Wolf Lodge but the Antler Shanty is certainly to be avoided. I had to confess to Ken that we’d gone – the restaurant was bad last year and so I got little sympathy from him for being silly enough to go back, not did I deserve any. Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me.

 Aunt Karin took Reid to the lobby for the Forest Friends Evening Show and Bedtime stories while I stayed in the room, feeling somewhat ill. The break did me good and I was grateful that I wasn’t solo with Reid on the trip. Reid was delighted to see Wiley the Wolf. Life works out some days.

Edited to add: You can also read about our first day or even our third day.

Great Wolf Lodge 2007, day 1

Saturday, October 6th, 2007

We made good time on our drive, even staying at 100 kilometres an hour through Toronto and got to the Great Wolf Lodge in Niagara Falls by 2:30. I’m sure that the oversized, synthetic log cabin looks the same at any of their many locations but it’s fun to get your first glimpse of it. Reid and I actually beat Aunt Karin here. (Aunt Karin has the reputation of a speedy racer.) Aunt Karin had joked that if I said we’d be here at 2:30 or 3:00, she would plan to arrive at 3:30 and be here when I arrived. Or at least I told myself that she was joking.

Reid and I waited in line at the reception desk while the 3 business men in front of us checked in. From their reactions to the wristbands and mention of the waterpark, I don’t think they’d read about where they were coming for their meetings. Just as the last fellow walked away, Reid announced that she needed to go to the bathroom. We’d driven straight from Frankford, about 3 hours, and so it was a reasonable, if inconveniently-timed, request. There was no line when we returned and I was able to check-in quickly. The woman at the desk heard me tell Reid to go look to see if Aunt Karin had arrived and asked if I wanted adjacent rooms. I explained that I had no man with me and Aunt Karin had brought no kids but thought it was smart of the woman to offer to put 2 parties together. We received our wristbands and were headed to the car with a luggage cart as Aunt Karin walked in. The wrist bands function as room keys, lock and unlock the lockers in the waterpark and are scanned in the stores and cafes when you charge items to your room. It’s so convenient not to have to worry about where to keep a key card or money when you’re wandering the hotel or waterpark. As someone who once found herself on the wrong side of the locked hotel door in a bathrobe – and thank goodness for the bathrobe’s the Delta Montreal provides – I’m always looking for easy ways to keep my key. (Yes, I do have trouble with keys.)

In the short time we were in line, Reid had time to be awed by the animatronic animals in the lobby. There are wolves and racoons on the wall above the fireplace and a moose, bear and owl by the wold’s den and also a talking tree. Reid also discovered a couple of chipmunks in the rocks that make up the registration desk. At first, she touched the handprint on the wall without knowing what would happen. She jumped back a couple of feet, covering her mouth with her hands and staring in amazement as the chipmunk chattered at her. Once she was more comfortable, she still took a couple of hurried steps backward once she triggered the chipmunk. The moose, bear, owl and tree are much bigger than the chipmunks, of course, but don’t seem to be as disconcerting to Reid. Perhaps they don’t surprise her as they are in plain sight or because they don’t have the high-energy and high-pitched voices of the chipmunks. Seeing Reid’s smiles and knowing how much time we’d whiled away without even getting to the room, I was pretty optimistic that I’d chosen a good location for our mini-vacation.

I had booked a room with a Wolf Den this year. Last year, we were upgraded for free from a regular room to a room with Kid’s Cabin and so I switched to the Wolf Den because I’m nosey. The Wolf Den is a mini-room within the main room that looks like it is recessed into rocks. It has a window and doorway (no door) and a bunk bed, small table and a flat panel monitor tv with video game controller. The Kid’s Cabin had an additional bed but the rest was the same. I don’t know what system the controller works with or how to get the games since Reid doesn’t play and neither do I. The walls are papered as a mural with wolves and over forest creatures. Reid immediately headed for the ladder to the top bunk but required some assistance. As always I was pleased with her caution, I think it is a healthy reaction as long as she still tries the activity. I’m glad she isn’t a daredevil.

With only minimal, but mandatory, unpacking accomplished, we got into our swimsuits and headed to the waterparks. Unlike last year, I’d remembered sandals for both Reid and me. We put our things into lockers and I dragged Reid away from the first pool and on a tour of the waterpark so that she would know what her options were. Reid was most interested in the first pool with its floating snake, beaver, acorn and leaf pile. We returned there and she climbed on each of the floating things in turn – the snake is big enough to warrant climbing onto the head and tail separately. I climbed onto the snake with her and just as quickly slipped back off, to the amusement of both Aunt Karin and Reid. Undaunted, I climbed back on although I was a bit more careful the second time. Reid was quite taken with the pool where you’re supposed to hold onto a rope netting and walk across lily pads, leaves and slices of logs but it isn’t for girls who are 3.

I got both Aunt Karin and Reid to agree to a ride on inner tubes on Crystal River. It’s somewhat challenging to get yourself and a 3 year old comfortably seated in a round inner tube – Reid refused the figure 8 version – but I managed (Supermama!) and we enjoyed the ride. The river is *really* lazy. I’m not sure that one could complete a circuit without assisting the current or if you just have to be much more patient that Aunt Karin and I were. We both ended up walking or paddling a bit. Reid insisted on bringing our inner tube out of the water herself, paying no regard to the fact that the tube was rounder than she was tall. Determined girl, that Reid. Isn’t “determined” so much nicer than “stubborn”?

When we got to the “beach”, we played in the calm water for a while. Once the waves started, I looked at Reid to see what we’d do next. She was grinning and so Aunt Karin and I walked her a bit deeper and helped her to jump the waves as they broke at our feet. Reid laughed as the water splashed in her face and as she jumped. She encouraged us to go deeper. This was not the same daughter I’d carried from the waves last year. That girl was a mere toddler, brave in her way but still a toddler. The “new” Reid, at 38 months, talks through her fears and plans how she’ll act. When we first discussed the waterpark, Reid declared – unprompted – that she was not going to cry or move her head from side to side (like she does when I’m rinsing her hair in the tub) at the waterpark. Instead she would be getting her whole head wet, even her forehead. She would get wet all over, just like a fish. And she has. Last year, the big breakthrough she experienced was making Reid comfortable enough in the water that she was willing to break the vice grip on my neck that she applied whenever we got into a pool. This year, I’ve seen Reid’s confidence bloom.

We ate supper in our room, thanks to Grandma Joyce making spagetti rice at my request to send with Aunt Karin. She sent fresh cut veggies, too. Aren’t I spoiled? The room has a bar fridge and microwave along with the usual coffee pot. The microwave has a warning on it about being careful when cooking popcorn and instructions on what to do if the popcorn burns, including the requirement to call the front desk and open the patio door and direction NOT to open the room door. I wonder what they pay each time the fire department comes out for a false alarm triggered by burnt popcorn. Our microwave at home is on its last legs and takes forever to heat things. This one is very powerful. Supper didn’t come a moment too soon for Reid. She pulled the food out of the fridge and was setting the table as soon as she took her bathing suit off. We’d had an early lunch and skipped snack in favour of the waterpark. When her bowl of spagetti rice was in front of her, she declared it a favourite food and dug in. I had to go to one of the coffee shops to buy milk for supper. They didn’t have any skim milk in cartons but the woman working did sell me some in a coffee cup. I haven’t seen any comment cards but I’ll have to look for one. That little bit of effort made me a happy woman.

After supper we had time for another half hour or so in the waterpark before we had to get ready for storytime. Aunt Karin supervised from the deck, where she sat with a book, and Reid and I spent most of our time in Chipmunk Cove. This pool has 4 slides – 2 straight ones and 2 gently twisting ones – and is about waist-deep on Reid. It is reserved for people under 4 feet tall and those accompanying a child. Reid liked playing in this pool with water that came to her waist. She particularly liked the low basketball hoops when someone would lift her up so that she could slam dunk the ball.

With Reid in her pajamas, we headed to the lobby for the forest friends show and storytime. Reid had milk and cookies as a bedtime snack. There were Teddy Grahams in a clear plastic cup with a lid that had a noise-maker and straw sticking from the top. It was really festive. I think it would be good as a take-home treat at a birthday party. We listened to the mother bear and her cubs as they talked with the moose, raccoon and tree. Reid clapped along with the songs, doing the actions when prompted. The fellow from the Cub Club performed a very energetic reading of Mmm, Cookies! and Mud Puddle by Robert Munsch. I was a bit worried that Reid would get too wound up to sleep but when it was time for the Great Wolf Lodge howl, Reid laid her head on my shoulder. The only flaw in the proceedings was that Wiley Wolf didn’t come out for the stories. Biko the Bear came in his place but Reid didn’t see it as a fair exchange.

After a brief discussion of why Reid couldn’t sleep on the top bunk, Reid asked to sleep in the queen size bed and Aunt Karin agreed to sleep on the bottom bunk. I managed a brief call to Ken that would have convinced him that I was drunk had he not been familiar with how I get when I’m tired. We all stumbled to the bathroom and into our beds.

Edited to add: Our lodge story continues with day 2 and day 3.

Song for the road

Tuesday, October 2nd, 2007

Reid and I left for our mini-vacation at the Great Wolf Lodge in Niagara Falls (Ontario) about 5:30 this morning. I was awake at 4:12 but tried to sleep until 5:00 but succeeded in lying more-or-less still for only 20 minutes before Ken admitted to being awake, too. I’d forgotten to pack food or dishes and so did that first thing. We got the car packed before pulling Reid out of her bed. She fussed a bit but we were able to convince her that it was still time for sleeping. She slept the first hour or so, waking when we were only 5 kilometres from a rest stop. We took time for a potty break and then picked up a cup of tea, some milk and a few doughnuts.

Reid knows where we’re going and is very excited about it. As we drove, she sang what might be our theme song for this trip and it hints that Christmas is far from Reid’s mind. She sang, “Ho, ho, ho, hotel. Ho, ho, ho, hotel.” The second verse was just like the first. There was a smile involved, too, although I could only get a quick peak since I was in charge of driving the car.

Fall Fair at Upper Canada Village

Tuesday, September 25th, 2007

It’s fall fair time in our part of Ontario and Upper Canada Village is now exception. Reid and I headed there on September 16th, after a leisurely breakfast at home and a snuggle with Daddy (her, not me, more’s the pity). After we resolved the small keys in car issue, we joined the rather large queue at admissions and went in.

The village had more people in attendance than I remember from others visits. I wonder if it’s that the fall fair is so much more interesting or that there are fewer diversions mid-September than when we visited earlier in the summer. There wasn’t a bottleneck anywhere to interfere with our visit, though. I’m glad when museums get lots of visitors since it would seem they’d be harder to close.

We went first to the fair grounds and started with some apple cider, bread and cheese. Oh, and I bought us some fudge but Reid got distracted by the animals and I ate her piece. All of the refreshment were 25 cents a serving. There were extra horses, sheep and ducks on site for the fair or at least there were animals we’d never seen before. There was also a pair of geese in a crate. A woman was telling her child about the “ducks” and I had to check the label to be sure that they were actually geese. As Reid peered into the crate, she asked if they were ducks. I was so hoping that the other mother wouldn’t be listening as I corrected Reid. She was, of course, and so I explained that I had had to read the card to be certain.

We had our lunch at Willard’s Hotel – a huge! sausage (according to Reid) and fried potatoes – and while there I discovered that my season pass not only gets me in for free – after the 2 visit equivalent cost of the membership – and offers a 30% discount on other admissions I purchase but also a 10% discount at Willard’s Hotel. Yes, the place we’ve eaten at on each of our 6 visits would have given me a discount if only I’d shown my card. The fellow who was explaining this to other diners also mentioned a discount at Fort Henry in Kingston. I must read the card to see what else I’ve been missing.

After lunch, I tried without success to convince Reid to have a nap. She top half was willing to assume a napping position but her legs and voice were too busy to be still. After 15 minutes without seeing a slow blink, let alone closed eyes, I gave up and we went back to that swing we discovered on our last visit. After a bit, we returned to the fair grounds to see a bit of the horse competition and then we went to join in the children’s games and races. Reid leant her strong muscles to one of the tug-of-war teams but it was a lost cause. At first, she seemed a bit perplexed by the whole thing since I hadn’t had time to explain what would be happening.

Next, Reid took part in the sack race. The bag came to her underarms but she wasn’t worried by that. Her eyes sparkled from the moment she was handed the flour sack until she jumped across the finish line. Reid and another little girl were soon left behind as the big kids hopped away. Each little girl fell at least twice but the costumed interpreters stood them back up and the girls hopped on. It was a long course for such short legs but Reid finished to great cheers. It’s too bad that the other mama “rescued” her daughter. Reid was proud of herself for finishing – as well she should have been. Both activities netted Reid a candy stick and so she was particularly happy and I had to be equally vigilant to keep her from opening and eating all of them.

Reid wasn’t willing to pair with a stranger for the 3-legged race but we did watch. The fastest pair was maybe 3 or 4 years old. They’d been giving a slight headstart but I’m not sure they needed it. I wonder if the shortness of their legs was the advantage or that they’re used to being dragged around by their parents. We also watched the wheel barrow races. Reid wasn’t interested in participating and since this seemed the activity most likely to cause an injury, I didn’t press the issue. She has asked us to walk her like a wheel barrow since then. Maybe she’ll want to be in the race next year. I told Melissa that if she can’t go next year that I may borrow one of her kids for the day. The final activity for the children was a ring toss. The post that the kids were aiming for was taller than Reid. She still managed to hit the post with a couple of her rings and that was worth a smile.

After watching a bit more of the medicine salesman/magician’s show, we went looking for the sheep. They’d moved from next to the Tinsmith’s shop – a place that doesn’t interest Reid in the least – to the hill next to the woollen mill. A few of the sheep came up to the fence and we spent quite a while feeding them some of the grass and weeds from our side of the fence. I’m not sure that the grass was greener where we were but the sheep seemed to enjoy being hand fed.

With my keys in hand where they belonged, we went to the parking lot before they locked the gate, not wanting a repeat of our last visit to the village when we were had the near miss. Reid ate most of her hamburger before falling asleep. I’d hope that she would stay that way but no such luck…

If ever you’re planning a trip to Ottawa, consider whether the Upper Canada Fall Fair will be happening round about then. It really is worth the consideration.

Day trip tips: International Plowing Match

Friday, September 21st, 2007

Some people pay lots of money to a tour company to research and develop an itinerary for them in an exotic locale. Not the sort of people that read this blog probably, but some do, I’m sure of it. In the spirit of the personal shopper, which I’ve only heard about on television, I’m offering a day trip plan for the International Plowing Match and Country Festival that will work for anyone living in Ottawa, Kingston, Brockville and all points in between who are willing to drive for about an hour and then spend a few hours at the International Plowing Match.

Since there’s a bit of a drive involved, I’m recommending that you leave home just before naptime. For us, that’s pretty much anytime after 11:30 and since Reid has Kindermusik until 11:00, we’ll feed her lunch in the car and then drive while she sleeps. Maybe I’ll even sleep. The helpful Plowing Match folks have provided a map of Eastern Ontario as well as driving directions for a variety of routes. I particularly appreciated the advice in the Planning Your Trip section that recommends planning your route and that police will be stationed to maximize traffic flow and that “Taking a ‘shorter route’ may actually take longer”. It’s a good piece of life advice really – things aren’t as simple as they seem.

Once you get to the parking lot, you’ll probably still be far from the tent city and also from the plowing fields but your adventure will be beginning. A tractor pulling a wagon will pick you up – there will be places to congregate – and your kids will be excited by the ride. If you’re waiting for a full wagon, talk with the driver as she or he is liable to be a local farmer who can share thoughts on what the Plowing Match means to a practicing farmer. For this farm girl who now lives in a city, it’s a trip back to childhood when my dad would take me along and spend far too much time looking at the equipment when there was candy and free stuff beckoning.

Check the plowing schedule when you first arrive. You may want to go straight to the plowing field immediately. Just make your way to the pick up area for a ride out to the plowing fields. I’ve never seen the plowing competition myself but I know that there are some competitors who use tractors and others use horses to pull the plows. I think Reid and Ken especially will like to see the process.

The tent city will have agricultural and technological exhibits, and stalls with quilts and the work of other artisans. There will be more tractors than you’ve ever seen before and bigger ones than you can quite imagine. There will be salesman promoting miracle products, some like the snake oil salesman of village fairs in 19th century, and others with the usual vacuums and knives. You don’t have to buy anything but choose the showiest and watch the performance. There are 4 stages with performers and 1 that features horticulture displays. There are a few so-called “edu-spots” where your kids will be able to see the Croskery Woodlot and Living with Nature Tent, the technology used in farming and costumed interpreters depicting the history of Leeds-Grenville. Watch out for the corn cob mascot as you walk around. And avoid the politicians so you don’t have to deal with the disappointment that one mom had to face.

Find some fudge. There is at least one vendor – I heard him interviewed on CBC’s Ottawa Morning. Share it with your kids if you have remembered to bring the diaper wipes. If not, eat it quietly once the kids are asleep. They would probably enjoy the cotton candy more. And you’ll have to eat some of it too so that the kids don’t get tummy aches. That’s the sort of sacrifice that a good parent makes.

As you walk around tent city, there will be lots of swag (stuff we all get). Watch out for the cotton bags – you can use them when you go shopping. Try to be choosy about what you put in them, though. Most of it will only need to be recycled when you get home. We picked up some colouring pages and farm stickers last time we were at a plowing match.

The International Plowing Match is open from 8:30 to 5:00 and closes Saturday, September 22. Stay until the very end and then find a place to stop for supper. It’s going to be a warm day – maybe even a picnic in a park along the drive home. Don’t drive and eat at home if you can avoid it. There’s nothing that kills the joy of a fun day then arriving home with tired and hungry kids who are impatient for supper.

Have a good day. If you do make it out, I’ll be the one with Digital Rebel and the husband who makes an inappropriate finger gesture when the camera is pointed his way.

Cottage life, part 3

Wednesday, September 12th, 2007

It’s funny, isn’t it, how the last day of a holiday seems to be filled with going home. As I lay in bed waking up, I was thinking of what needed to be packed, what needed to be eaten so that it didn’t have to be packed and that sort of thing.

Reid and I left Ken to sleep in a bit on Monday morning and tried to go to the highly-recommended Apple Betty’s in Morrisburg for breakfast. Reid was starving, ready to chew on her own fingers by the time we made it from Iroquois to Morrisburg and then to far side outskirts of town. Of course, the restaurant was closed. We went to the Macintosh Inn instead. Reid wanted sausages (of course) and I added toast so that the waitress didn’t think I’m a bad mother. I ordered french toast and the waitress warned me that they would be sweet. I kind of shrugged not knowing what to say. Later I heard her offering to bring the cinnamon and sugar separately. I’m glad I hadn’t had the option. The french toast that were placed in front of me were encrusted with 1/4 centimetre of cinnamon and brown sugar. It was a lot like eating freshly-baked doughnuts. Yum! I had to stop after a piece and a half because the sugar was making me twitchy.

As we drove back to the cottage, Reid told me that she and Ken would be doing the packing and I should sit down. While that sounded pretty good, I thought it might cause some stress in my relationship with Ken. I convinced her that I should pack the food and leave her and Ken to the the “stuff”. We all worked together for a while and then Ken and Reid went to the gazebo to play. She had asked me to go but I wanted to be alone more than I wanted to slack. It was going along swimmingly until we got into the car. Ken is a foot taller than me and needs the driver seat farther from the steering wheel than I do, surprisingly enough. I had the backseat floor packed. Oops!

We were only 10-minutes late leaving. Since we’d been told we needed to be out at 10ish, I thought we did well. We drove to Upper Canada Village and took the miniature train to Crysler Park Beach. I’d always thought that the train just ran in a purposeless loop but, since we didn’t use the only tickets we’d bought for it at during the Alight at Night event we went to last year, I had no real information. I’d never given much consideration to the term “miniature train” but if I had, I would have thought of the train as being short, cute and low to the ground. I wouldn’t have equated “miniature” to “torture”, as in “when you’re 6 foot 2, a miniature train is a form of torture that you endure if you love your daughter.” Poor Ken has such long legs that he couldn’t get comfortable even when he sat as sideways as possible on the little seat. He didn’t complain – I couldn’t fault him for the grimace of pain that crossed his face. Being short has some advantages, it turns out.

We got off the train with our basket of sand toys and picnic lunch when we got to the little train station at Crysler Park beach. The beach was only a short walk away. The sand at the edge of the St Lawrence River seemed “imported” to me, not that I’m an expert but it didn’t seem to match the stones in the river. I’m not complaining about the sand, though, since it was fine and clean and perfect for castles. Ken and I built the castles and Reid destroyed them with glee. I convinced her to wait while I built a compound with several castle buildings and even a wall. Reid was trying to wiggle herself into the hole I was making as I filled my buckets and so I made a point of digging a girl-shaped hole. Soon enough, she was laying in the hole and I was covering her with sand. Have I started a odd little habit or do all kids like to be buried in sand? Once freed from the sand, Reid offered a brief look of admiration, or was that calculation, for my development Reid asked if she could knock it down. She danced and stomped and soon all was flat.

We ate our lunch at a picnic table, disposing of some of the leftover groceries and then went back to the train station when we saw the train’s approach. The train ran every half hour, and with the unrelenting approach of nap time, we were able to stay only an hour. Plus, the need to do laundry was intruding on our vacation. We used the bathrooms at Upper Canada Village, conveniently located outside of the gates, and had to explain to Reid that we weren’t able to go to see the animals. We piled into the car and Reid and I were asleep 5 minutes into the drive. Thanks to his sleeping in, Ken was able to stay awake for the whole trip.

I’ve said before how lucky we are to live in Ottawa. Now, I’ll add that I’m feeling lucky that Ottawa is situated where it is.

Cottage life, part 2

Wednesday, September 12th, 2007

Reid woke up at ten to six on Sunday morning. Since we were all in the same bedroom, Ken and I woke about then, too. As soon as Reid’s feet hit the kitchen floor, she was talking about going outside. I’d left the windows open until about 4:00 and the overnight temperature of 7 degrees Celsius made the cottage chilly enough that I knew to turn down Reid’s request to eat outside. We used the microfurnace to warm the kitchen and I cooked sausages (Reid’s favourite) and Reid made toaster waffles. I had to explain to Reid how the toaster worked first. She knew where to put the toast but not how to “flush” them. We have a toaster oven. She did a great job with the waffles and had fun, we’ll have to have them more often.

Ken dropped Reid and me off at Upper Canada Village just after 9:00 and went off to watch ships going through the locks. I saw more than enough ships go through the locks when I worked at Fort George and we decided that Reid wouldn’t enjoy the experience yet. We’ll take her to the Rideau Canal locks in Ottawa instead. Reid and I hadn’t been to the village in the morning before; we’ve always left home after lunch so that Reid can nap on the way.

In the morning, the costumed interpreters are busier in the morning or at least busy on different tasks. We saw some walking calves to the apple orchard to let them graze and using the pump to fill buckets for the trough. There were others raking the grass that had been cut the day before and some gathering corn and stalks for the oxen. We also got to see the men in the bakery punching down the bread and putting it in pans. The coals were still in the bread oven and I was able to point them out to Reid.

Over in the cheese factory, the man was stirring the milk as it cooked – it looked like pale orange cottage cheese since they’d already added the dye. Not so appealing, really. He explained about the process and also that the vast majority of cheddar cheese – more than 90% – is made in north eastern North America. He also told us that cottage cheese and cheese curds weren’t widely eaten until after pasteurization became the norm because of the “bad” bacteria that was in the milk. When I asked about aging cheese, he said that mild cheddar is aged from 2 to 6 months, medium from 6 months to 2 years and old for longer than 2 years. He said that in the 1860′s the main rule was not to eat the cheese before 2 months to be sure that the “good” bacteria had had enough time to destroy all of the “bad” bacteria.

We also saw a couple of men setting cauldrons to boil over an outside fire so that they would have lots of boiling water when they slaughtered the pig that afternoon. I didn’t mention the purpose to Reid, though, and while *I* saw the pig being cleaned and cut up later, I didn’t draw Reid’s attention to it. I’m sure she could have handled the sight. The area was clean, the people doing the work were respectful and it seemed sort of clinical. I didn’t think Ken and I were up to all of the questions, though. I don’t know enough about the finer points of running an abattoir or porcine biology.

For the first time ever, Reid and I took a ride on the carry all – a horse-drawn wagon that takes people around the village on a guided tour. Reid had never expressed an interest beyond watching the horses at a distance and there has always been lots of people on it. We were there before the crowds and it seemed like a good idea to propose it. The man driving told us lots about the buildings we drove by and also about the animals and crops – not so much that our brains filled up but enough to make it interesting. There are still buildings that I’ve not been in for 5 years and so it was good to hear what I’m missing.

We went into the print shop and saw a woman making posters for the Fall Fair that will be held on September 15 and 16. One announced the fair and the other warned “Beware of pickpockets”. Apparently some pickpockets followed a fall fair circuit since people carried much more cash when they went to the fair than was ordinarily the case. I don’t think I’ve ever seen this process before. Reid could relate to inking the stamp and had wide eyes as the press was retracted and the paper pulled off.

We stopped by the house where we saw the lady spinning last week and they were dying wool with walnuts. At the end of the process, the walnuts looked like charred black balls and the yarn would be a black-brown. Other than the cauldron over the fire, though, there didn’t seem to be much to see. The extra woman was weaving at a large loom but Reid wasn’t interested in watching her though she did watch the woman at the spinning wheel for a bit.

We noticed two swings in the backyard of the house next to where the wool-dying was happening and so made a point of going there. It amazes me that we’re still discovering things after all of our visits and I wonder what I’d do with a guest who had only a single visit. Reid had lots of fun on the swings – two ropes hanging from a branch with knots at the end and a wooden board between them. The one was too low even for her but the other was just right. I kept reminding her to keep her bum lower than her knees and she kept telling me to push her. It was a perfect activity in a perfect environment. There weren’t other kids waiting for a turn and the sunlight filtered in through the leaves of the apple tree.

We watched horses going in a circle in order to power a saw that was cutting logs. The one horse is grey and a favourite of Reid’s. I thought it was a white horse but the handler said that it had black skin and a white coat and was grey. A white horse has pink skin and a white coat, he said. The other man talked to Reid about the bark that was coming off the log and let her smell and touch the wood shavings that had fallen below the blade. No, not when the saw was working, when the horses were having a break.

We ate lunch at Willard’s Tavern, where we usualy have tea. I checked into the Harvest Barn, which is more cafeteria-like, but the prices were pretty much the same as Willard’s without the ambience or the view. I had a ploughman’s lunch plate and Reid asked for stew. She ate some meat and dipped her bread in the gravy and then spied my boiled egg. Since she asked politely if she could have my “fancy” egg, I happily let her have it. She didn’t like it and had trouble swallowing the bite and so I offered her a bite of just the yolk but that wasn’t right either. Of course, I had to taste it then and discovered that it was a chilled, pickled, hard-boiled egg. Pretty different from the warm, non-pickled ones I give her at home.

After lunch we went over to see a bit of the singer who was at the family activity centre as part of the special event. We were really there for the marionnettes but had some time to kill. Reid listened to one song but didn’t seem interested and I offered to go play outside. She shook her head and cuddled close and I picked her up. Before the next song was over, Reid was asleep.  I carried her to her stroller and she stayed asleep while a nice lady put the back down for me and then when I lay her down. We went to the quiet, shady spot of the path we’d walked down earlier for the first time and I sat on a little bench and wrote about our hot air balloon adventures while Reid slept for 45 minutes. I’m lucky that Reid isn’t ready to give up her nap, since it’s required at daycare. I also enjoy the quiet time (okay the chance to nap).

Ken picked us up at 2:30 and we all went to Prehistoric World. A one-kilometre long path runs winds it’s way through some gardens and a forested area and along the way there are cement dinosaurs of various types. For the first 2/3 of our visit we saw dinosaurs that looked similar to ones we remembered from school but had different names. There were a few sentences describing each dinosaur and so I’ll have to conclude they were properly researched. Still we were glad to see the Brontosaurus, Triceratops and T-Rex. We wondered if there was such a thing as “new dinosaurs” to go along with “new math”. The first dinosaur that really caught Reid’s interest was just being built. The wire frame shape was complete but the cement hadn’t yet been added. Ken dubbed it an “incompletasaurus” and we took a picture of it. He had names for the other dinosaurs, too. My husband has some trouble imagining cement dinosaurs as the real thing and he has a wicked sense of humour. Some of his alternate names were very funny.

We finished up digging in an “archaeological” sand pit. I’d read about it on the Prehistoric World web site and so had brought buckets and shovels. As we dug for dinosaur bones – okay, we were making castles, Reid wasn’t interested in digging for bones – a little boy came over and asked to borrow a shovel. He said please without prompting and we had a spare and I encouraged Reid to say, “yes”. His mom was somewhat horrified. I told her that he’d asked nicely and it was no trouble and then went back to playing. The sand pit was Reid’s favourite part. Without it, I’m not sure that she would have been as positive about the visit. If she was a dinosaur fanatic, like many preschoolers are, she would have enjoyed the range of types of dinosaurs. Parents see cement statues but I think the kids can imagine them alive better.

We had hot dogs and salads (good purchase ;+) and chips for supper on the deck at the cottage. I think the cold of the previous night killed the flies or maybe they were all sick with colds in their little fly houses. Either way it suited me. Reid had a hotdog and bun, until the bun “broke” and was unfit for eating (at least according to Reid). Then she smiled at her dad and convinced him to let her have the left over hamburgers that he’d been planning to eat. Ken is amused that Reid is such a carnivore. To be completely accurate, she loves meat and dairy products, likes most fruit and veggies and could take or leave bread. Oh, and she loves rice and pasta – will eat a plate of spaghetti noodles with nothing but parmesan cheese or a mound of rice.

There was a 3 year old and a little one about 18 months old, both girls, in the next door cottage. There was a little toddler boy a few cottages down. We saw some shy smiles exchanged and the other 3 year old girl said, “hi” but Reid didn’t speak. Reid is a reserved kid. She has some good friends at daycare but she isn’t the sort to run away hand-in-hand with someone she just met at the park. It’s funny. She likes to be in crowds but not necessarily talking to the other people.

We played more of the Winnie the Pooh Goes Together game and went to bed relatively early. Ken sat up in the kitchen reading and since Reid fell asleep so quickly, I even managed to get up for a while. We’d had such a busy day that I stayed up only long enough to have a hot chocolate but it was still an accomplishment for me.

Cottage life, part 1

Wednesday, September 12th, 2007

We got to our cottage at the Doran Bay Resort in Iroquois, Ontario just after 1:00 on Saturday. There were 10 cottages (one for supplies) all in a line with space between them to park a car. Each cottage had a deck, table and chairs and a barbecue. Lawn chairs were scattered around the grass. There were also a pool that was open from 9 until people stopped swimming, a couple of canoes in which we could paddle around the bay, a gazebo with some toys, a couch and chairs and a long table, and lots of open space to run and play on. There was a line of firepits set at a distance from the cottages, which meant the kids didn’t go near them during the day and at night people could have bonfires without disturbing people trying to sleep in the cottages. There wasn’t, unfortunately for us, a climbing structure, swings or a sand box or a beach. We had to re-evaluate our plans a bit for entertaining Reid. It would have been ideal if Reid were nine or ten and willing to make friends with the other kids and play on the grounds or if we’d been part of a group. In fact, Ken assessed it a perfect place for my family to gather. There were 2 cabins of people – grandparents, adult kids and small kids – that seemed to have discovered this for themselves.

We lugged our things in from our car (which I stil lovey) and all lay down for a nap. The cottage was delightfully cool, holding onto the chill of the night before and I was reminded of why I love late August in this part of Ontario: warm days for playing and cool nights for sleeping. While I got groceries, Reid and Ken took turns pitching and hitting with Reid’s new plastic bat and ball. I heard that Reid also rode her bike in the lane behind the cottage. Ken pushed her along the stones and practiced braking. Coincidentally, she was also breaking her dad’s back bit by bit.

We all played outside for a while and then Reid and I went for a swim. Reid brought her Dora the Explorer swim ring along and took it for its first test float in a real pool. She’s had it for more than a year but we’ve never taken it anywhere but Reid’s wading pool. The pool was kind of chilly for me – *only* 78 degrees – but Reid had no such concerns. After our swim, we sunned on plastic chaise lounges, watching Reid wrap herself more or less gracefully in a variety of arrangements. It was entertainment in itself.

Reid and I walked over to look at the river and the bay. We took a canoe for a “ride” – staying safely on the grass and letting the wind blow us along so that we could leave our imaginary paddles on the bottom of the boat. I joked that we should have brought Uncle Roge along to paddle us around, like our last canoe trip. We also went out onto the little dock, that Reid insisted on calling a bridge, and looked into the water. We didn’t see any fish – though the fellow in the next cottage reported having caught a few – and Reid was convinced that the dock, rather than the water, was moving.

Ken barbecued hamburgers for supper on the barbecue that was in front of the deck. It was a smoky affair and the results were lip-smackingly good. Paired with the salads I so carefully shopped for, it was a wonderful meal and we ate at the table on our deck. After supper, we went inside the cottage to get away from the flies and played the Winnie the Pooh Goes Together game that I got at the Dollar Store before we went to Chicago. We’d never played it before but Reid seemed to know the rules. She paired the soap and tub, wind and kite, and so on confidently and then turned them over to find the picture on the back. In theory, the picture on the back confirms the match. In reality, it does that and also provides a clue to what the other item might be. Reid was quite willing to sneak a peek at the back when stumped and eventually as a matter of course. I tried to stamp out this devious behaviour with a few, “Reid, you’re not playing fair” comments but since she was playing alone, no one was about to quit the game to make a point.

The temperature dropped as the evening came – not like those crazy days of 27 degrees at 8:00pm – and it would have been a perfect night for a campfire. The woman who runs the resort offered to set us up with wood for only $4 but we declined. Reid needed to go to bed and I knew I wouldn’t be far behind her in falling asleep. There were even extra-long handled hot dog or marshmallow roasting forks in the supply cabin. Mmmm, yummy, thinking back I wish we’d kept Reid up. Sunday went better for us having put her to bed on time, though, I’m sure.