Archive for January, 2007

Whirlwind Wednesday

Thursday, January 11th, 2007

What was I thinking? Why? Why? Why? That pretty much summarizes yesterday.

I made an appointment to have the oil changed and the car cleaned and shampooed yesterday. Ken goes to French class downtown so he needs only take one bus instead of the three it would take to make the 20 minute car trip to his office. Unfortunately, I had to clean out the toys, books, clothes, food, potty and general stuff that rides around in our car first. That stuff is just inside the house right now but that’s another story. When I got to the garage, I had to take Reid’s car seat out. All along, I thought she was eating the Nutrios that we give her some mornings. Not so! It seems she has been putting them under her car seat. Since the car was in the shop already, I had to leave the mounds of o’s where they were. It added to the embarassment, I guess, but since the car is generally a mess I can’t blame Reid too much.

When I picked the car up, the nice woman at the desk tried to help me get the car seat back in but she just wasn’t strong enough. One of the fellows came over and he pulled on the seatbelt while I kneeled in the seat and pushed against the ceiling with my back. With a good amount of effort, we got it back in securely. They even shampooed her seat. Fabulous service! They recommended leaving the windows down over night and let me go.

It was hard to let Reid into the shiny clean car at daycare; heck, it was hard to let *me* get in ;+)

At a certain point, Ken reminded me that swimming lessons started again on Wednesday night. I’m not sure I said, “no problem,” but I think I thought it. Kinda dumb. I am bad at thinking spatially and about time. Fortunately, I had gathered our bathing suits and so Ken was able to get them, our towels and Reid’s pj’s into a bag while I drove home. We had time to pick him up. He brought some lunchmeat and a Babybel cheese for Reid to eat on the way to swimming. Yes, eat.  In our clean car!

Reid was so happy to be in the pool! (We didn’t get to the pool last weekend.) She chattered and giggled and grinned and more or less followed the instructions that Emily, our new teacher, gave. She wasn’t keen on Emily dumping a bucket of water over her head, though and so Emily didn’t. After class, Ken said that he thought she made the most logical decisions because, really, what person wants a bucket of water on their head? Reid jumped into the pool – a first at class. She uses so many words in just the right way – “Come closer, Mama,” she’d say, having worked out that she wanted to end up in the water with her arms around my neck. That’s so much easier to figure out than “Mama” which might also have meant, “you’re insane if you think I’m jumping” or even just “I’m afraid”. Kids who talk are pretty cool.

We got home and I gobbled a sandwich while Reid ate some crackers and hummous and then it was time for bed. Poor Ken had to eat alone and amuse himself for the evening as I just couldn’t wake up once Reid was asleep. I almost made it but she roused when I put her in her bed – we’d both fallen asleep in the rocking chair – and once I lay down with her, I was finished.

We survived a Whirlwind Wednesday but I think I won’t ever schedule a car appointment on Wednesday again. I will also make sure to have our swim bag packed and by the door. Ask me next week if I followed through. :+)

Books we read, January 10th

Thursday, January 11th, 2007

Ken read Babies and Barney: Hooray for Daddies! by Gayla Amaral first thing in the morning. Just before bed, I read:

  • Animal Daddies and My Daddy by Barbara Shook Hazen, a Little Golden Book that was first printed in 1968; we have a 1977 editon;
  • Moo, Baa, La, La, La by Sandra Boynton, one of our favourite-est books ever; and
  • The Going to Bed Book, also by Boynton, which ends with the animals in ark on the water where they “rock and rock and rock to sleep” – just like Reid does in our rocking chair.

Rules for our table

Thursday, January 11th, 2007

Yellow still rules at our house but Reid has developed a preference for her “gdeen” glass for milk. A while ago I bought a second set of glasses from Ikea so that we wouldn’t be faced with the horror of a dirty yellow glass when Reid needed a drink. It’s a good thing that I got a full set and not just a one-off because we don’t run the dishwasher enough to keep up with the demand for a favourite cup.

Reid has also decided that she is too big for baby flatware and so is eating off of plates bigger than her head. A couple of nights ago, Ken set out two regular sized forks and a lttle one that Reid used to prefer. I ended up with the little one and so suggested perhaps three the same size woulf be better in the future. Reid takes seriously her job as table setter and becomes upset if she is usurped. We take out the plates, glasses and cutlery and put them&on her white stool. She announces who will be getting the items she is holding and then places them on the table. It goes something like this:
Reid picks up two glasses and says to them (or maybe to us but she is looking at them) “Reid” while addressing her green glass and then “Red Daddy” while addressing the other. She then takes them to the table and comes back for the next glass. Note: Ken and I use a variety of colours, I was just giving an example. Except I don’t think Reid would ever give Ken the yellow glass.

As she walks the plates in she announces who will get the one she is carrying. They’re big and heavy plates and must be carried one at a time. She doesn’t narrate the silverware but is particular about who gets which one and so choosing identical ones is the best way to go.

It’s a slow process if we don’t remember to get Reid setting the table until supper is done but that isn’t her fault. And the investment of time now will, we hope, pay off through many years of table-setting.

I haven’t tried to get her to put the cutlery or glasses in a particular place relative to the plates and I’m not sure I want to mess with a system that is generally working.

Thank goodness I had a girl

Wednesday, January 10th, 2007

I had an important meeting this morning and I wore a black skirt and and black tights with a burgundy top. Very slick and professional. As Ken was putting Reid into her car seat, she looked at me and exclaimed, “Mama no shoes!” I looked at my feet – they weren’t cold and so I was pretty sure I had shoes on – and saw that I was wearing baby blue Crocs. I ran into the house for more appropriate footwear and we headed off. Ken hadn’t noticed but when he saw, he said he thought it would have been funny if I’d gotten to work like that. I like to think he would have told me, if he’d noticed. In any case, I had a girl who notices such things. I have an ally, for a while at least, in fashion. I won’t make fun of her shoe collection ever again.

A pastry chef I am not

Tuesday, January 9th, 2007

I am not a pastry chef and Reid isn’t learning anything too fancy at my knee but I do let her help me when I bake, or in this case, when I make pudding. You can tell from this photo that she enjoys herself and besides, how many two year old know how to use a manual egg beater?

Chocolate egg beaters

Books we read, January 9th

Tuesday, January 9th, 2007

Reid and I got up 15 minutes late, which makes a big difference when we usually have 45 minutes from eyes opening to Reid getting in her car seat. Still, Ken was able to read Wheelies’ Trusty Tractor (no author), Peek-a-Who? by Nina Laden and The Very Hungry Caterpillar by Eric Carle. I love listening to Ken read to Reid. I love his voice any time and when he is reading in a silly voice or in a barely-awake voice, it’s perfect. This morning I had a lovely recitation that to acompany my shower.

Once we all got home, of course I was last to arrive, Reid was eager for once of us to read to her. Well, technically, she had already asked Ken to read to her but he was busy with supper. Throughout the evening we read:

We haven’t listened to the CDs for Daddy’s Girl or Duck in New York City yet but now that Reid has noticed them, we will have to do so.

Twelfth Night Celebration

Tuesday, January 9th, 2007

I took Reid to the Canadian Museum of Civilization for Twelfth Night celebrations on Saturday afternoon. Reading the blurb in the paper made it sound like quite a party, with dancing and cake and more. When we arrived, Reid was still wiping the sleep from eyes since we went straight from naptime to the car. She wasn’t interested in joining the circle dance demonstration, in fact she didn’t even want the shoes I’d brought along. In my grown up wisdom, I said she wouldn’t want to be clomping around in boots. In her toddler wisdom, she thought footwear was footwear and the shoes I offered didn’t make the cut. I decided I was silly for picking a fight on such matter but since I had only the shoes, I had to stick to my guns. Eventually, she put the shoes on and we rode the escalators. She wanted to take the same one down as up but I, her life guide, explained things didn’t work that way. We watched a bit of the dancing as we rode, or I did anyway. I asked the museum guide when the cake would be served since the dancing wasn’t remotely interesting to Reid and then we went to the Children’s Museum planning to come back.

We decorated a piece of construction paper – yellow, of course – to hold a calendar. Watching Reid cutting with such intense concentration made me think of how much improved her hand-eye coordination is lately. When I went to the open house at daycare, there was video of her and she was holding the scissors with both hands. On Saturday, while she couldn’t cut out pictures but she does make cuts into the paper while holding the scissors correctly. She was also interested in the hole punch (which we have) and bingo daubers (which we could get from the Dollar Store). Good craft ideas! Reid insisted on using the water fountain that has a stool to stand on. She didn’t want me to push the button because she could do it herself. What she couldn’t do, however, was push the button and drink at the same time. There were a couple of older ladies sitting on a bench watching this unfold. Reid was opening her mouth almost wide enough to swallow the basin of the fountain and was so determined to serve the water to herself. The ladies laughingly congratulated Reid when she finally got some water in her mouth.  We tried out the both the buggy and bicycle parts of a bicycle taxi and I gave Reid a “ride” in the motorcycle taxi. We got on and off of the bus a few times and Reid talked on the phone in the red telephone booth several times. I suggested that we could walk farther in to see some more exhibits but Reid wasn’t interested. We spent about 40 minutes in the initial exhibits and she had a blast. Next time we’ll have to try for the second 50 metres.

At 3:15, we headed back for the cake that was to be served at 3:30. They were cleaning up! First, I wouldn’t buy Reid a hamburger on the way to the museum. Then, I had to say we were too early for cake. Finally, the cake was gone. Guess who sprang for a treat at the museum cafeteria? Reid chose a big cup of fruit. She ate most of the watermelon, a couple pieces of pineapple, all of the cantaloupe but refused the green melon whose name I can never remember. I’m not sure if she was full or if it was the green colour or that I couldn’t name it. It worked out that the cake was gone. After our snack, we rode the escalators a bit more and then headed for home.

Here’s a picture of Reid concentrating as she uses the scissors.

Concentration is helped by the tongue

A subscriber is born

Monday, January 8th, 2007

I’m pretty excited that Reid received her first issue of Chirp today. (I’m such a nerd.) I read her the address label so that she would know it had her name and address on it. I started reading it to her and then she had Ken read some, too. I’ve started pointing out when I am reading a magazine, as opposed to a book.. Who knows what she makes of it? I, of course, took a picture of it.

Reid and Ken with Chirp

Where does the time go?

Monday, January 8th, 2007

Ken had showered and shaved by the time I got Reid out of bed this morning. I managed to choose an outfit that she liked (yellow button-up oxford shirt plus jeans and yellow socks, if you’re wondering) and she happily put her clothes on while I showered. Or at least she did after she claimed my large bath towel as her own and gave me a smaller (but big for Reid) towel instead. What a fink! In any case, she was dressed and playing mini-sticks hockey in the hall by the time Ken and I were getting dressed. Ken made his lunch while Reid finished up and then I did her hair. At some point, though, we entered a time warp and so instead of being earlier we were late. Maybe it had to do with the fact that Reid started to cry when she realized that Ken had packed his lunch without her assistance – how dare he! Or it might have been that she decided needed to make herself a sandwich before leaving for daycare. All of a sudden, the time was gone but it seemed much too smooth for a day that we were late.

Books we read, January 8th

Monday, January 8th, 2007

I’ve been setting the books we’ve been reading on an upper shelf of the bookcase. It’s helping us to “see” some of our former favourites that we haven’t read lately. We had a smooth morning but Reid wasn’t interested in staying still, not even to use the potty, and so reading wasn’t on the agenda. This evening, though, she was more receptive and we read: