Archive for January, 2008

Before she tackles me – Wordless Wednesday

Wednesday, January 9th, 2008

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Bad advice from my sister

Tuesday, January 8th, 2008

I had a very scary dream Sunday night. In it, Reid wanted to go to a movie theatre to watch a “show” (her word for videos, tv shows, etc.). I didn’t want to go but Karin convinced me to let Reid go on her own since she is getting big. For some reason I was persuaded by her “3 year olds go to the movies by themselves all the time” argument. Karin and I got a dual control city bus, available for the low, low rental price of $10,000 an hour, and went driving around. At a couple of points, I felt breathless with panic at the thought of Reid alone in a movie theatre but each time Karin talked me down. At other times it was having to come up with $10,000 that took my breath away. When I finally awoke, I had to concentrate on staying awake and knowing that Reid was safe in her own bed.

I think this dream offers 3 lessons:

1. I’m feeling a bit of doubt about Reid’s solo swimming lessons that start this week. She was telling me yesterday that she thinks she should go alone when she is 4.
2. I seem to have a surpressed desire to drive buses.
3. I should buy a lottery ticket as I’ve got some angst around finances right now.
4. Karin gives better advice when I’m awak

On table manners and otherwise

Monday, January 7th, 2008

At some point without discussion, in that magical way of parents, Ken and I decided to start enforcing the rule that Reid ask to be excused from the table before she leaves it. Since she has had the ability to leave on her own, she has generally said, “I’m done,” in a way that implied that she was planning to leave the table if no significant objections were raised. We’ve formalized it lately to a request to be excused. Maybe waiting until now means we are manners-deficient ourselves but I needed to set the scene for my stories.

Reid dutifully now asks, “I be exkwoosed?” often without prompting. I love the way she says “exkwoosed” and will sometimes use Reid’s pronunciation. Ken then has to correct me since we don’t (presumably) want to reinforce little kid talk but should instead model the proper pronunciation. I think this might be the first Reid-word that I’ve been tempted to use.

One night Reid invited Daddy to watch a show with her after supper. He accepted, with barely a sigh, despite the brain numbing effects of tv for tots. When Reid was leaving the table, then, she asked *me* to be excused as is her habbit. She turned to Ken and advised him, “Ask Mama to be exkwoosed.” His reply was something akin to “Not in this lifetime.” In fact, he probably said exactly that.

Reid continues to find potty humour and noises produced by one’s body funny. Once we got the fart/toot issue sorted out, she is pretty good with “exkwoose me” in that particular situation. Burps, though, are eliciting giggles and require prompting. I think Reid is even trying to cause herself to burp. What a little princess we have! Someday maybe she’ll be able to burp the national anthem, dans les deux langues officiels. A mother can dream…

In the spirit of public service announcements,  I must also confess that Reid takes a great interest in things that she deems to be “stinky” and doesn’t hesitate to question whether a person has farted. I’m working on letting her know this isn’t appropriate but 3 year olds are pretty uncivilized. Still, I’m awfully glad that Reid isn’t one of those kids that uses the contents of her diaper to draw on the walls. That would be much, much worse. Remind me if I let the stinky/fart questions get to me.

C’mon over

Sunday, January 6th, 2008

Ken, Reid and I spent Saturday moving things around to allow him to have his office in the basement (again) and to allow us to create a guest room on the second floor, closer to the bathroom. The move grew out of a plan to install a toilet in the furnace room so that Grandma Joyce could sleep in the basement when she visits. Ken thought 4 toilets in a house with 3 humans – the 2 cats don’t use the toilet – was over the top. He didn’t want to discourage his mother-in-law from coming, though, and so proposed the office switch. (He is a special guy, my husband.) There will be a double bed in the guest room / sewing-scrapbooking room waiting for those people who find the futon unwelcoming or who didn’t want to try the fabulous double-bed-sized air mattress. In fact, we’re getting to the point of being able to host micro conventions once the 2 couches are factored into the mix.

Ottawa is hosting the World Junior Hockey Championship this year, I’ve had a couple of expressions of interest already. Before that, we’ll have Winterlude (if winter comes back), March break, Canada Day, Orchestras in the ParkFall Rhapsody and so much more. Book early and avoid disappointment.  ;+)

No time for language lessons

Saturday, January 5th, 2008

Reid woke up Friday morning and called out for me. I was downstairs diligently captioning photos and so ran upstairs, calling to Reid as I went. As I snuggled with Reid in her bed, she said, “Eee, eee” in what seems to be another nickname she has for nursing. After a few “eee”s, Reid moved onto “oh, oh” and we had ourselves a teachable moment. Did you know, says I, that E and O are special letters called “vowels“? That A, E, I, O, U and sometimes Y are vowels and they have special jobs in words? Reid listened as far as this and then, as I was saying that other letters are called consonants, she called out, “Milkies!” Reid doesn’t know the expression, “For the love of all that is sacred” but if she did, I’m pretty confident she would have used it after “Milkies!” (I’m sure by the time that she has such expressions in her vocabulary, she won’t be nursing any longer though some of you may be wondering if she’ll be nursing when she goes to college. That is just silly talk.)

‘Twas the night before Christmas 2007

Friday, January 4th, 2008

Reid and I took Ken to work on Christmas Eve. Reid was interested in why there would be a party at Mama’s work but not at Daddy’s. We sidestepped the question a bit, not having time to explain the Grinch and all. Reid did manage to scope out Ken’s building during a trip to the bathroom and then we made our way to the building where most of the people in my branch work. As my office is off-site, Reid’s current impression of Mama’s workplace is a somewhat posh boardroom with treats on the side table, craft supplies on the main table and a movie playing on the screens at the one end.

Between Reid eating most of the orange slices single-handedly (but with pauses in between trips to the tray to allow other people a chance) and sticking me with a chocolate-glazed doughnut and cutting, colouring and pasting we whiled away an hour or before the main event. Santa made an appearance, though his elves were busy getting everything ready for the big night. Reid wanted me to walk with her when her name was called but broke into a run as we got near to jolly Old Saint Nick and launched herself into his hug. The Spud Buds that Santa gave were well received. I thought it an interesting commentary on sociey that the carrot has a cell phone and the ear of corn has a handful of money. Or maybe it was the little potato that was supposed to have the cell phone and the carrot the money or the ear of corn should have had … You know how confusing Potato Heads can be. At least there was no requirement for the Mama to have a moustache.

We picked Ken up and stopped at Wendy’s for lunch. The drive-thru staff were pretty awful, putting pickles on Reid’s no-pickles hamburger and giving us white milk instead of the requested chocolate. They didn’t give us straws for the drinks Ken and I ordered and the chili I ordered was entirely absent. Was I glad we decided to eat in the parking lot? You bet. I went in for the chilli and pointed out the other errors. Rather than an apology (or a nothing-says-sorry-like-a-free-Frosty) the manager told me that she’d said “no pickles” several times. We dallied almost long enough for the cleaners to finish the house. We need to check that the kitties can get to their food and water after the cleaners leave.

We got the car packed and were on the road fairly close to our target time. As usual, I sat in the back with Reid and also, as usual, Ken drove through awful weather while Reid and I napped. I woke to a strong wind that even I, oblivious in the backseat, could tell was causing Ken trouble. We pulled off the highway for a bathroom break for Reid (thankful not to be risking the same wet carseat as the last time we travelled) but Ken stayed in the car – I think that his body was nearly frozen into place with the strain of the drive. We made it to our hotel in good time and, after a trek through the bowels of the hotel to get to our room since the lobby entrance was closed, ordered pizza for supper.

Pizza for Christmas Eve supper is a tradition in my family and it is always popular with Reid. She and I sat on the bed with a towel for our picnic blanket but we had proper china plates and flatware as well as linen napkins from the hotel’s restaurant. It was a fun meal. After supper, Reid and I went swimming. It was odd to be in a swimming pool while listening to Christmas carols, I have to say. Reid didn’t comment on it, though. We used the hot tub and sauna before returning to our room. Reid wasn’t as excited as I might have expected. Santa visit is still a bit of an abstract concept, I guess. With our 6″ tree on the desk, we settled down for a long winter’s sleep. I think that the Daddy creature was stirring for a while after Reid and I went down but I don’t have any first hand knowledge of it.

Christmas quotes, part 2

Thursday, January 3rd, 2008

On the way back to Ottawa on Boxing Day, Reid was playing with Thomas, her new Care Bear from Atira, Harley and R.J. Reid assigned me the role of Daddy and she was Mama. Thomas was crying, Reid said. She added, “Thomas will cry and cry and then we’ll take her (yes, Thomas is a girl) home and she would stop crying.”

Do you suppose Reid had had enough of travelling by then?

I wrote about another Christmas quote last week.

Bloggy resolutions

Wednesday, January 2nd, 2008

It’s that time of year, isn’t it? Time to set a goal or two. For 2008, I am planning to:

1. Be more diligent about linking, both to external sources and to previous entries.
2. When writing about a trip over several posts, go back and link them together. I don’t know how many new people arrive at a post in the middle of a trip but it’s frustrating enough for me that I gave myself a good talking to.
3. Bring my online life together. I blog here and post most pictures to Kodak Gallery. It’s a bit of a hassle to prepare pictures in Picasa and then upload and finally caption. Since Picasa is linked to Blogger, I will investigate a photo blog with controlled access.

I think these are attainable objectives. Watch and see, eh?

Opening presents is tiring work – Wordless Wednesday

Wednesday, January 2nd, 2008

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